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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

Why does my boyfriend barely keep in touch while he is out of town? is it suspicious? It's upsetting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is away for four days visiting his mother in California. We were together for the whole week before he left. We really bonded and had an amazing time together. Fast forward to the day after he gets to California. He emails to l...

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though sh...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

My husband is pressuring me for a threesome.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi..We r married not very happily but married for 6yrs..I feel n it's true my husband was never true with me.no doubt he loves me n kids but he's very confused b character less person.since 5 yrs he's pressuring me for three some.every time he wants ...

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off,...

Things have been volatile. She's been a flirt with someone one else. I've been angry. So where to now with our relationship? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - HI people. I need advice. I accidentally found a message from my girlfriend that a guy sent her asking "what she would like him to do ;)". setting aside the winky face, this could have been innocent or harmless flirting,so I waited to see if...

The guy I've been talking with for two years or my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I went out to eat breakfast with this guy(J) I met since orientation in college. We had such a good time. Well problem is that we had each others number but didn't text each other at all. Also, I am talking with someone(X) for almost 2 years but ...

Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and he and my former best friend, (who is also my cousin), are now a couple. How do I get over this betrayal by the two of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I was relationship with a guy like for 4 years suddenly one day he told me he is seeing someone else and that girl is my cousin. She knows everything about our relationship and also she knows how much I loved him. But I don't know why the hell a b...

Is this a case of Grass is Greener Syndrome? She broke up with me so suddenly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

20 May 2015 (M) - Hello people. I am hopeing to get some advice here. I will keep it short: She is 21, and I am 10 years older. As far as I know she only had one real BF before me, and he cheated a lot on her. We have been together for about 8 months. It h...

Should we carry on or just walk on different paths? We still have feelings for each other, but is that really enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this - whoever you are. I've been with my husband for 3 years. We come from different continents, but met while I was traveling in his country. We traveled together and it was fun at the beginning ...

Do I unfriend her? Talk to my Bf? My Bf has been avoiding me for last few months. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards...

He's been visiting a single female friend's home and did not tell me. Am I over-reacting to this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Would you be ok with your husband going to single female friend's house to hang out alone with her? Husband has done this more than once without telling me and i've just found out. He promises nothing is going on with her and that he just wasn't t...

I've become suspicious of my husband and my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Hi there! I'm new here and I have a question about my best friend and my husband. I have been with my husband for over a year, and my best friend and he have known each other for about six months of that time. Over the course of their friendship...

I've recently become a bit jealous of my boyfriend's friend with other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Hello peops I'm not generally a jealous person, but for some reason for the past couple of months I've been getting a little jealous quite easily with my boyfriend. For example he's moving in next year with a mutual friend of ours and I sud...

I met this man and the chemistry was intense, so what happened next was ............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid.. Long story short, have been texting 24/7 with a Guy i met 2 weeks ago. We been out together with friends 3times partying And made out once(french kissing). He is crazy in the head And i completely get his sick sense of humour. We t...

Every time I think about him I feel ten times worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - I've got depression, dropped out of uni due to it and am stuck back at home again with an abusive family due to financial reasons. I have no friends but I did meet a guy through temp work, who's older, in his thirties. He was bullying and rud...

She knows I'm upset with her as I've acted off but I haven't told her why. Any suggestions please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

11 May 2015 (M) - I'm at university at the moment. My girlfriend and I have been going out since late October, before that we were seeing eachother and she went home for the weekend and slept with her friend. They never used to go out they just had sex (f-buddi...

My sex drive is such that I want to sleep around but I know that will hurt my boyfriend, and might make him depressed. What can I do about my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a really uncomfortable situation. I've been with my bf for 3 years with one break. During the break I had sex with two people and dated a person online for a few weeks. I just really wanted to get something out of my system. I have ...

Clearly we have some kind of emotional affair going on but what now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I met a guy 3yrs ago through a mutual friend, there seemed to be an instant attraction on both sides the chat was flowing and then he slips out that he has a girlfriend, gutted! Anyway I decided right then to back off. He lives over 2 hrs away ...

An I over-reacting? My boy friend wants to spend some quality time with each of his children.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

8 May 2015 (F) - Ok so I really need some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and he has two kids ages 12 and 10 from a previous marriage... he's a wonderful father and that's one of the many reasons I fell in love with him, well anyway...

My ex dumped me for another women. What can I do to stop thinking about the situation & being jealous of her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

7 May 2015 (F) - My ex fell out with me and dumped me for another woman who is still a friend of mine on Facebook. I know he was seeing her before we fell out - hence the argument - although she always maintained she didn't know we were still together. Howeve...

Should my Mom and I continue to share the same boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

6 May 2015 (F) - My mom A fell pregnant at 15 and dropped out of school. She later completed her matric and qualified as a nurse. While my mother was studying my grandparents cared for me. My mother did not neglect me but regretted that she could not give me all ...

Do I act on this crush or stop it going any further?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - i have been married for 14 years.have always had a good relation with hubby for first 10 years except for in laws who kept interfering and troubling us. After 10 yrs he slowly started drifting away and had an extra marital affair with a girl. N...

How can I have a successful relation with a guy when my mother is so disruptive, judgemental and interfering?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - I am 30 years old and I have been dating with this guy who is 46 years old. We love each other so much. He never been married or had a kid before. He is so honest person and I love him so much. The problem is my family,specially my mom.she always b...

I would like to have a real future with him. He is married and he and I had a relationship earlier. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I have had an affair with a guy for about three years and I ended it when I realised he was not going to leave his wife. We have been on friendly terms ever since. Now, 4 years later I am going trough a really,really rough time and he helps me ...

He wants time to get over the guilt of dumping his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3480 days ago

3 May 2015 (F) - I'm in love with a guy who already had a gf when I met him. Now the guy says he loves me but can't commit to me as he is trying to get over the girl. His ex is also crazy and keeps coming back and keeps calling him although she knows he loves me...