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Archived questions from: November, 2018 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why do people start dating when they are not over their exes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

30 November 2018 (F) - Or get into relationships for that matter. I'm dating a few guys at uni, and the number who are clearly just looking for a re bound or keep bringing up their exes is disgusting. And I know people who've even gotten into relationships with people, ...

How could he treat me so badly and now act like nothing bad ever happened between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

30 November 2018 (F) - Hi 6 years ago I met the man of my dreams I was madly in love with him and things were going well after a year of been together I fell pregnant and miscarried the baby the next day my boyfriend kicked me out of his flat no explanation as to why he ...

Who is the cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

24 November 2018 (F) - If you have a baby with a man and he ditches you and then some years later you meet him again and he goes back to wanting to sex you again and you can't stop wanting to see him and then you find out he already has a girlfriend who he is still ...

Did she not change her status because she hasn’t given up on us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2226 days ago

22 November 2018 (M) - Hi, Thank you in advance for reading and hopefully giving me some advice. I will do a quick background on me, I'm Dave I'm 33, I have a son he lives with his mum but I have regular contact with. Right where to start, I have been in a new relatio...

How do I stop thinking that my boyfriend's ex wife was the love of his life even though he says otherwise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2229 days ago

20 November 2018 (F) - Hi, probably seems silly but I have an amazing boyfriend who I know loves me and vice versa but many years ago when he was only 20 he met and married someone. He tells me he was young and silly, didn't love her age regrets the years he wasted ...

She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

17 November 2018 (M) - I got a tough deal.. So my girlfriend just broke up with me, beacause ive continuously lied to her about my drinking. Which is a problem. I don’t blame her for breaking up with me at all, but of coarse i didnt want that. okay the thing is we ...

Am I being unreasonable asking him not to meet up with an old flame?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2226 days ago

16 November 2018 (F) - Hello Cupids I have been with my partner for six years and living together for three. Yesterday he told me that he has been meeting up with a woman he sort of used to see and I'm not sure how to take it. We all met in university, and the pair ...

He insists he has changed, can it be true? Or is this all a front to win me back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

15 November 2018 (F) - I recently posted a question a few weeks ago about my situtation of after a long break apart, my ex boyfriend is claiming and insisting he is a changed man. We have met up occasionally as "dates" which often led to dicussing our relationship and set ...

Was I expecting too much of my boyfriend regarding his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - Recently a friend of mine told me that she saw my boyfriend's ex working at a nearby shopping outlet. She is working there part time to earn extra holiday cash. History of my boyfriend and his ex : They remained friends for a whole year after hi...

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deep...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

My ex girlfriend wants to be reimbursed for gifts she gave me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2241 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - I have recently broke up with my girlfriend after nine months together, a couple of weeks before we separated she bought me a present but now we're not together she's asking me to give her back the money she spent on that present, I don't think ...

My boyfriend celebrates Christmas with his ex and family and I am not even invited

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

7 November 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is early 50 and I’m 30. He has 2 kids that are early twenties. They live and study abroad and from time to time are back in town. The problem is that he celebrated Christmas at ...

Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2241 days ago

7 November 2018 (F) - My husband occasionally uses my laptop. And sometimes watches porn on it, which is fine as long as our sex life is ok. I always delete the porn off my browser history as i sometimes need to bring my laptop into work. Anyway, apart from looking up ...

I don't understand why she did this to me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2241 days ago

2 November 2018 (M) - I know part of the answer. She's selfish. Has some severe mental health issues but so do I, so I'm trying not to hold it against her. Been scouring all over the internet to understand. Narcissist? Bipolar? Just trying to make sense of all this. ...

I am devastated that my ex has cut me out of her life. I thought we were still friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2246 days ago

1 November 2018 (F) - My ex girlfriend doesn't speak to me anymore and it still haunts me. Her and I were the best of friends before we ever got together. We did everything together and were in a relationship for roughly three years when we split up. We are both women, ...