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Archived questions from: July, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I pushed him away because I wanted him closer to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - So 3 weeks ago I kind of pushed my boyfriend away and told him I don't wanna be with him but what I was really trying to do is making him understand my mental illness, suffering from GAD and BPD, I tried to tell him maybe through my ery wrong way of ...

What does can,t say Goodbye so i,ll say Goodnight mean ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

31 July 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and i split up 3 months ago , the last time, and the last thing she said was , can,t say Goodbye so i,ll say Goodnight , Which one is it ? If she was too upset to say Goodbye, and did not want to say Goodbye ,BUT ...

My ex boyfriend's girlfriend texted me telling to delete old posts from when we were dating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - I got a message from my ex's current girlfriend. He cheated and immediately got together with her after our breakup. I took the breakup better than I expected and became happier. But he always texts trying to get back together. He also started ...

Is my ex girlfriend leaving breadcrumbs or is she looking for reconciliation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

29 July 2017 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me around a year ago. We tried re-kindling a few months following the breakup but things did not progress. I was direct with her and said I do not want to be friends and continue to communicate any longer since I felt ...

My boyfriend tells me that he's over his ex so why are they following each other on instagram?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - HEY!!!! I've been dating this guy for six months and I was looking on Instagram and found his ex-girlfriend's page. Her page is public. When I looked at all her pictures he liked almost all of the recent ones. Him and I are not friends on ...

Did I accidentally lead my controlling ex boyfriend on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

27 July 2017 (F) - Currently I have an amazing bf who I've been dating for a short while. Before I started dating him, I dated another guy for a short while who turned out to be a total control freak. When I 1st met him, the feeling of being wanted felt very good. ...

I think my girlfriend might be in touch with her ex but I am afraid to bring it up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

27 July 2017 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, Trust is something that is always earned, and unfortunately she has lied to me a few times, so i really have a difficult time sometimes when situations don't feel right or i get the feeling shes ...

I have feelings for two guys, and they're best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2710 days ago

27 July 2017 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I am in a bit of a unique situation which is causing me a lot of stress. My ex, (let's call him M) and I broke up in March after he said he didn't really know what he wanted and he said, "this doesn't mean we can't get back ...

Is it too late to contact my ex? I shouldn't have let him go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) - Hi,just ended two year relationship, he was nice first but soon As he knew I fell in love, he changed became a jerk, I broke up with a guy, to be with him, a six month relationship, now he was so different, he treated me so special, I didn't know ...

We split up 5 years ago but I still have feelings for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - Hi I split up with a ex 5 years ago I know it's a long time ago but the problem is I still have feelings for him and I don't know why the relationship was very intense we fell in love straight away but he suddenly started treating me horribly I ...

My boyfriend has been texting a past hook up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a few months now and we are crazy about each other. We have been exclusive for a while, but I saw the other day that he has been texting with a girl he has hooked up with before. They have been friends for 10 years, ...

Was he just being an ex, and was he using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2714 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - Hi thanks for reading guys I need advice. On wed me and my ex spend the night together, we went for a meal a few drinks and was best night we ever had, he was so loving told me he can't imagine his life without me. Was incredible met some of his ...

How do I address these problems? Has anyone out there dated a partner with children, while having no children themselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2713 days ago

22 July 2017 (M) - I need some advice. I met a divorced woman with 2 beautiful kids over a year ago, and we first started meeting only for sex, but somehow, we have developed a very strong friendship and I think we are both very fond and loving of each other. Ou...

The difference , between , I DO LOVE YOU, YOU KNOW . compared to I LOVE YOU .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

17 July 2017 (M) - My ex girl friend , said to me now and again , I do love you, you know . Is she trying to say that she treated me badly ? I used to say to her I love you , I,m wondering what the meaning behind her ...

Do I stay with my husband because I feel sorry for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm 49 and married second time for 5 years. He is 13 years older and adores me. But Iv never really been settled. Iv hankered after an ex for the first years of the marriage. Now Iv met and fallen madly in love with a guy I met . I'm so ...

Things were good until his ex' got involved

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

15 July 2017 (F) - I met a guy online in January who is a really great guy. He's a bit older than me but that doesn't bother me. He's 37,I'm 27. We spoke for about 3 weeks before we met for real. We got on instantly and after a few weeks, we began spending more and ...

Why am I so jealous? Why does his past bother me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

15 July 2017 (?) - Advice needed. I am in a relationship with someone and it's been a couple of months. I don't know why but I get really jealous of his exes, even a woman he just went on dates with I get jealous about. It's ridiculous, I know I can trust him, and I ...

A man who she has been dating for 3 weeks gets more recognition than I did in 3 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

15 July 2017 (F) - I am so upset and livid right now and I just need some words of wisdom and kind responses to bring me back down. I'm a gay female. I spent 3 years in a relationship with a woman. I was the only woman that she'd ever been with. It was one of th...

I can't forget THE ONE

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

15 July 2017 (F) - It's been 10 years since I met A,the man of my life. Someone whom i've dreamt of being with since I was a child. I thought he'd exist only in my imagination, but I found him - and we shared mutual sentiments for each other. Unfortunately, we led ...

My boyfriend's ex wife still comes into the house every week

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

14 July 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of a year is divorced three years and his ex wife comes into his house with their High School children to collect any things they have left there when hes at work. She comes in with them and into the lounge and kitchen etc and has a ...

I can't believe that after all his drama, HE dumped me! I need closure. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - Hey guys! Just need a little advice at the moment! Hope you can help! I met a guy at my job that I started dating.. before anyone says "Don't date people you work with".. I usually don't, and I only made an acception because he works in anot...

Is it stupid to take back my ex in a month or two?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - I had been in a relationship for almost 6 years (engaged to be married) and my fiancé informed me almost a month ago he likes another woman. After plenty of time I decided one night to leave him and moved everything out and back to my parents ho...

It's not an affair, right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - I found out my partner has been in contact with her ex saying that she misses him. We've been together two years. I don't think they have met up just exchanging calls and messages. Should I be concerned? It's one thing to say you miss someone but...

My new boyfriend doesn't make me feel beautiful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't ever make me feel beautiful. He will always say to me 'you look nice' but I can tell he is just saying that without any true feeling. I would say I am an attractive girl and tend to get a lot of male attention and fe...

Relics of the past are starting to get to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

11 July 2017 (F) - When divorced, should one get rid of souvenirs from the honeymoon, and the rings? I'm in a serious relationship with a divorced man. He still has the wedding rings (says he will sell them, but nothing has been done still), and he often wears t-sh...

I feel like I'm a rebound and that he's not over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with his last ex girlfriend almost 2 years ago, I'm not very sure he is over her and I feel I'm just a rebound whenever I ask him questions about his past relationships he doesn't get frustrated about any of his exes except his ...

Hes been exchanging suggestive messages with an ex ... should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - A few months ago, my boyfriend and I argued over a woman that he had been making sexual comments with on facebook. He said that he was joking, but I didn't think it was funny. She said she had a soft spot for him, then he mentioned a "hard spot" , ...

Should I back of and give her time to deal with things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

7 July 2017 (M) - So for the past month or so I've been sleeping with this girl I know through mutual friends. We always have a lot of fun together when we hang out. She's just getting out of a seven year relationship and is currently in the process of moving out of ...

He's asking about people I've slept within the past 2 years!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I've recently got into a relationship with a guy i've been seeing on and off for a long time. We've only been together a couple of months officially but he's began to ask about people i've slept with over the past two years. He's quite insecure as ...

Is he cheating with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - Is my partner cheating??????????? He says he needs 2 clear his head is he cheating with his ex and only talking 2 his daughter his smashed his phone up so no one can get hold off him but I think his stopping at his ex house cos he knows were not ...

Why can't I let go of somebody who had let go before it even started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I'm so confused with myself and am hoping the advice from unbiased people will help my heart a bit. Last April I started dating someone who was an acquitance for 10 years before that. I fell head over heels and really thought we would work out. ...

I'm keeping him at a distance so I wont fall in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Does everyone really maybe not know where things will go when you start hanging out with someone you like??? I mean right now of course we like each other and he says a connection is there he just dont know what it is yet.... So yea we had good ...