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writes:Why does my ex hate me so much? My ex just hates me. He's terrible. He spreads lies, stirs the pot with friends, loves a good drama scene, loves making me feel crazy...We're not togther anymore, and since the summer- we haven't even been in contact. But I hear things through the grapevine- terrible ridiculous lies that he's spreading about me. For instance, we have a mutual friend who was sick. I went to see him in the hospital and he told people that I gave him pnemonia when I went and it nearly killed him. That sort of idiocy. No truth whatsover to it. Crazy stuff.sometimes when another mutual friend calls me to set me up with someone, I hear him laughing bitterly in the background.Why? I just don't get his malice. I've never lied to him, when I was with him I never cheated. I loved him very much at a time- now I wonder why I ever loved someone who was able to be so utterly heartless. But I don't get it. What did I ever do to him to make him treat me this way??
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (11 December 2009):
Have you ever heard about the fine line between love and hate? I have to agree though, he must have really loved you and got really hurt. When you really love someone and things don't work out; some people can become pretty hateful. I would be a little shocked at his behavior too, it sounds like you didn't do anything wrong and that you two just weren't meant for each other. Perhaps you felt that way and he completely didn't.
Sometimes you just gotta call people out on their crap. I know that you just want to ignore it and eventually he'll stop because he'll see that you don't care and finally give up. But if he's spreading nasty rumors about you and embarrassing you in front of your friends, I would say it's time to tell him that you don't appreciate his behavior and to freakin' grow up!
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (11 December 2009):
 I suspect he turned to be utterly heartless because he got utterly hurt, utterly dissapointed...
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