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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Does he still love his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - this is a long one.... okay! when i first meet my current boyfreind we were both dating other people. All 4 of us were mutual friends and hung out a few times. As time went on my relation ship with the old boyfriend ended and a few months l...

Do you think he'll come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have just broken up, he has been seeing another woman for a month, I found this out yesterday. We've been together for a year and a half and I feel as though my whole life has come tumbling down. I know who the woman is and ...

My head says I cannot trust him... that's not a good basis for a marriage/family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I'd appreciate some advice on the head verses heart question. My ex and I had been together for 8 years. We broke up 12 months ago - we were living together, and he moved out. We had been having lots of silly arguments, he was always t...

My ex said he loved me up until 3 months ago. Has he moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years after a 14 year marriage. We had a lot of outside pressure and split very often!! We have a 3 year old daughter together whom he doesn't see. I still love him but we have been seperated now about a year, he ...

I thought I'd feel relieved that he's found someone else. Why do I find it so hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm a thirty year old woman with a seven year old son. Me and his father split up because we were arguing all the time - he didn't want to end the relationship and was quite possessive but I couldn't handle it any more. I felt really bad ...

Has something similar to this ever happened to anyone you know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've just moved house a few days ago to a town twenty odd miles away from my boyfriend and I hadn't yet told him where I'm living, as we had a physical fight a couple of weeks ago and I'm thinking of leaving him. Anyway, last night he rang me and ...

He keeps calling me his ex wife's name by mistake... and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have been dating for 11 months now. He has been sweet and all those things good and bad, yet it's all good. A few times he has called me by his ex-wife's name. He done it once or twice... The problem came in when this afternoon we ...

Is this fixable? Should I give it another try? Should I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old with a 10 month old son. Abit of a long story//sorry! Please Help ME!! I met this guy who was 13 yrs older than me when I was 17 years old. He convinced me to go out with him, keeping it secret from both our families, until I ...

Why do I still love him and want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...

Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, ...

Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...

After our breakup she tells me she was cheating on me for a year?? I still care!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Hi everybody, basicallly had a 2 yr relationship with a girl, I love her to bits still do, she broke it off over commitment issues, during the 2yrs i treated her like a queen (in hindsight not the best way to go). We have remained best friends over ...

Should I have done this? What are your views?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've fallen in love with this guy, A. We were seeing each other for two months and then broke up but we hadn't talked through it properly or cleared the air between us, he just seemed like he didn't want to know although he did say he still loved me ...