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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I dreamed of kissing my ex.. but it was weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (?) - So the dream starts with me looking in the mirror and my reflection tells me, "You will be very lonely when you are 32"... I sort of scoff at the mirror and go into my bedroom, and my Ex gf is laying on the bed in lingerie! We say nothing, I just ...

Does the ex want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Need help determining if my ex wants me back. We have been broken up for 3 yrs but still interact.we talk for at least 2 hrs a day, sometimes more. He calls me every morning and at night too. We see each other intimately once a week and he comes to ...

Appropriate behavior to retain regular contact with ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Hello all. With this question I am just trying to get a sense of what most people find to be appropriate behavior in a relationship re: communication with an ex. With all of my previous girlfriends there was just a kind of unspoken rule tha...

My b/f never stops talking about "hot" women it's making me feel uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - The problem I have is that my boyfriend constantly - and I mean it - talks about other women as being "hot" and that he'd "do" them. It makes me uncomfortable, as he knows I don't have the greatest self-image of myself. It makes me wonder what he ...

How do I get over a broken heart? I love him and want him back although he is not worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Two nights ago my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss, I was and still am completely in love with him. I had noticed he had been a bit off with me around other people but when we were alo...

How can I get her to give me that chance and start building her trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I'm worried that i've lost the girl of my dreams forever. We were together for 4 years and in the last few months i didn't realise how distant i had become. We broke up in November because of this but we both missed each other so much that we got ...

Should I take her back someday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - my ex recently ask me to break up,because she needs time to deal with some legal issues and also she wants to figure out what to do with her life but she wants us to remain friends and for me to continue with my life. she is in the process of divo...

My bf makes me upset when he talks about our relationship, almost 'failing'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Been with my bf for a while now 6-7 months. When he gets depressed I get really upset, like last night he said to me on the phone that everyday he is with me he feels its another one off. I asked him this morning if he is happy and he said he is bu...

He wanted to be single so I broke up with him but now he's uncertain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I'm not getting over my ex and I dont really want to either. My boyfriend of 3 years revealed to me he wanted us to go on a break as he never had a single life, he was busy doing other things and didnt get toghether with many girls at all. He is ...

Am I being unreasonable in asking my partner not to let her ex stay overnight??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - my partner is from abroad. She has a child and when she goes back to her country to visit her parents she also allows her child to see her father. Her parents have a large two bed apartment outside of town and she stays their alone with her daug...

Is he over his wife or are the feelings still lingering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - My man and I age difference is 31 years apart. He has 3 grown kids plus my son. I love him and he says he loves me but every time we have a conversation he has to bring up his ex wife who cheated. Does he still love her or miss her. Although he says...

Can someone help me define this for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - 1.Ok, should I be upset because my ex does not see my son any more? 2. A man (my ex) who had issues with a gay man who used to write love letters to him at work, used to hang out with some fruity guys at college, and whose mom also had a conce...