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Archived questions from: March, 2018 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what ...

Have I hit my dirty 30's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2433 days ago

30 March 2018 (F) - I have recently turned 35, and am wondering, if I have hit my dirty 30s late? I've been horny everyday since I turned 35. ...

I wasnt able to get off during sex, want to break up but feel I cant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

29 March 2018 (M) - Okay so to start from the beginning, I met this girl on tinder about a month ago. Lets call her Amy, Amy and I finally met in a coffee shop after two weeks of on and off chatting. She is really cool, we are basically the same person but different ...

I feel like I am being pressured into having sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

29 March 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years now, at first we were having sex all the time whenever possible, as it usually is when youre with someone new. Now it has calmed down a bit and I am completely okay with that but he is not. Its ...

Do gay guys like men who are on the down low?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

29 March 2018 (M) - Do gay guys, have fwb,with guys who, have girlfriends, do they like having guys like that. Cause am thinking about asking a gay guy I know, if he would like taking my virginity, I have fantasies, about having sex with him, all the time, when I do ...

Should I sleep with him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2429 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - So roughly four years ago I met a young man who was not from the same country that I was from and he was only in town for a couple days so we exchanged information just to stay connected. We were both in relationships at the time, however our ...

Why did he refuse to cuddle me after being intimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - I knew this guy from uni a few years back, I think we always had a thing for each other or were always at least attracted to each other. Whenever he used to see me, he would get nervous. We ended up seeing each last night and I went back to his...

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

My husband is too stressed for sex but not too stressed for porn.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - my husband (together total of 5 years) and I have sex maybe once a month. He says it's because stress of work that hes tired etc - he does have a stressful job working for himself and working long hours. But he masturbates 1-3 times a day to p...

My FWB wants a break and I don't know why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

22 March 2018 (F) - Hi, my friends with benefits recently told me he needs a break. Apparently he's mad at me because I called when his soon to be wife showed up at his house to discuss the divorce. I did't know she was there. We talk every day. We lived together...

My husband had an affair and now I can't sleep with him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: two questions combined into one Hi everyone. I've been married for nearly 6 years. We have a three year old son. Last year my husband and I had some issues where I focussed too much on one my hobbies and spent less time with him. He t...

My love life is just a big mess.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 March 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I were dating for just over a year and we were so happy together, but the last few months of us dating were just filled with arguments. Those arguments were mainly about her parents as they are extremely controlling and they were ...

The only time my girlfriend has orgasmed was with an ex boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

19 March 2018 (M) - We're together for a few months, our sex is great but she can't orgasm with me. I asked her why and she said she can't orgasm and that she had just one orgasm in life once with other guy in the past. I'm very jealous and insecure about that and d...

23 years as a couple, love my spouse deeply but certain sexual constraints leave me unsatified. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

18 March 2018 (M) - I'm a male in my early 40's, have been married to my spouse for 15 years and we are a couple for +23 years. She has been my only sex partner or lover in all my life, so my experience is limited. We have a very good relationship and 2 great children...

I am thinking of losing my virginity to a stranger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Is it a good idea to lose my virginity to a complete stranger? I just broke up with ny bf and I was planning on just making out with another guy but things might escalate....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I'll get straight to the point. My best friend and I (I'm female, he's male) have a 'friends with benefits' kind of thing going on. We are intimate, sometimes affectionate, but never romantic. We have never dated, but despite clearly not being a ...

Do you consider girl on girl action cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship for almost 3 years now. My boyfriend is out of the country most of the time. We are apart for months. I love him and I have never had sex wit another man nor have I ever kissed someone else. I haven't even flirted with another ...

My boyfriend doesn't approve of my modeling career!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - My partner and I live together, we had an argument last night. He is 25 and I’m 23, I am pursuing a modeling career that is just taking off but he doesn’t approve the photoshoots; last week it was because the photographers are men and he feels ...

I think he’s using my pregnancy as an excuse to avoid sex! I feel unwanted and unloved!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - Right now im 3 months pregnant for the first time and it supposed to be a very joyful moment in my life but i feel so lonely and unloved. My husband is happy and excited knowing im pregnant but since then we never had sex. He will reject sex and ...

My boyfriend had a threesome dream about me & one of my closest friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - This question goes out to those of you with some expertise in dream analysis... My boyfriend had a dream of him having a threesome with me and one of my closest friends. It was very porny and intense and he was having sex primarily with her in it. ...

Should I forget him or give him time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Hello Everyone, My problem is rather silly. but since it is eating my brain up i decided to post it here and look for answers as to what i shall do next. i have an online friend for a year. we had very friendly conversations but that was about...

Why do I always lose sexual interest with partners?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2448 days ago

14 March 2018 (M) - Hey all, bit of a weird one but I didn't know if anyone could give me advice. When I'm in a new relationship, or hooking up with someone, I feel very sexual and enjoy having sex. This tends to carry on for a few weeks, sometimes months - but one...

I can't tell if he's just testing the waters and measuring my boundaries sexually.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - I feel like I'm going to get teased for this question or stereotyped as insecure. I used to struggle with insecurities when I was younger but I've grown out of most of them as my figure developed and I became who I wanted to become. For some reason ...

How I teach him about sex without him feeling like an idiot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - So I started dating one of my guy friends who I have known for 8 years. We're pretty close with each other and getting our feelings out there has only brought us closer. I am not a virgin but I'm not like really experienced either and he is a vir...

She says her married boyfriend will get jealous if we have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

9 March 2018 (M) - I met this girl, after speaking for weeks, we met for casual sex. It was great and she seemed to be enjoying it. We were probably busy for 2-3 hours. She even asked me to whip her, first time for me but she enjoyed it. She was good and was eager to ...

How do you heal a wound so deep in your heart? How do you stop being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - How do you forget something so hurtful as seeing your partner make love for hours to a much younger woman in her teens and that moment when you see it you have just given birth and you are not as fresh and new as her teen body and your boobs have ...

How do "average" couples have sex? How to politely avoid ejaculation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

8 March 2018 (F) - How do "average" couples have sex? How to politely avoid ejaculation? By that, I mean those who (if filmed) don't look like porn videos (pro or amateur). I can't find anything online about how less adventurous couples have sex. I'm probably co...

How do I work through our sex drive imbalance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

6 March 2018 (F) - I am currently living with my trans ftm boyfriend and everything is so perfect in our relationship except for one area. Some backstory, I am a straight cisgender female and I met my boyfriend just before he started on T about a year ago. He and...

He pursued me and now I’m in love with him, but he has a girlfriend. Do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

5 March 2018 (F) - Please don’t judge me too much for writing this.. but I’d really appreciate some advice. This guy works in a different department in my office.. we knew each other vaguely for 2 years and and he started messaging me randomly around 6 months ...

Why do you think he cannot climax when I'm very wet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

5 March 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We see each other about once every 2-3 months. When we see each other and have sex, he doesn't last long, only about 3-5mins. But after a few days of having sex for 2-3 times per day, he will...

What if I’m not his first?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

4 March 2018 (F) - I've recently fallen in love with one of my guy friends who has been in love with me for 8 years but I never felt the same until now. I don't know for sure if he's a virgin or not, he's very good at somethings but feels a little "shy" in others. ...

Why does he only stay hard in certain acts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

4 March 2018 (F) - Why does my boyfriend only stay hard if I give him a blow job or give him a hand job?? ...

Is it possible for me to ejaculate and not realize it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

4 March 2018 (M) - I have sex with my gf, 3 times in fact in a night till morning, first was 6-7:30pm and 2nd was 2:00am, it's unprotected sex and I did a pull out, it was successful, but on the 3rd time I did it around 6:30, I did not cum, or I think so.. I was hard ...

My boyfriend doesn't reach climax like he used to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

3 March 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship with a age gap. I'm 29 and he is 47. We have a 5 year old together. Our relationship and sex life have always been great. But the last while he isn't reaching climax all the time. We have sex almost every night. Sometime...

Sex feels like a chore.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

1 March 2018 (F) - Hello, I met my boyfriend almost 4 years ago, and we have been together for about a year and a half. We used to have a great sex life, really experimental and open to trying new things. I've hit a rut where we don't have sex as much any more an...

I'm offended that my FWB didn't believe me when I said I'd taken the morning-after pill.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

1 March 2018 (F) - Hi all... So I’ve been in a kind of friends with benefits relationship with an older guy for almost a year, but we’ve had sex maybe like 10 times in all. Just some background, he’s separated and I’m just single. We have a good friendship, but we ...