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anonymous
writes:I'm a 20 year old female and have had a few sexual partners. My problem however is that I cannot have an orgasm through penetrative sex. No partner has ever made me have an orgasm. I can reach it myself through clitoral stimulation but no one else can achieve this for me. I have been with my current partner for nearly 2 years and it is starting to effect our relationship. Does anybody have any reason why I cannot orgasm through sex, and any tips to help? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): you are normal and fine. this is how majority of women are.. do not break your head on this topic. your partner will adjust to it.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 July 2010):
 This issue has been addressed hundreds of times on DearCupid and can be searched in the archives, but know that you are in the majority of women. It is nothing new and has been studied for decades, even before Masters & Johnson and the Kinsey studies. Especially at your age, few women achieve orgasm from intercourse alone.
The key, in brief, is a knowledgeable male who skillfully applies a variety of foreplay techniques, usually including cunnilingus (oral), G-spot massage and so much more. After you have experienced such a man, then achieving orgasms will gradually become much more possible, perhaps even through intercourse alone, but will likely always be enhanced via proper foreplay. Check out the Web site's archives for more.
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