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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: My GF and I have been living together for 2 and a half years. We get along fine, but the sex is not often enough (once or twice a week), and it is not good enough to make up for the days of no sex. I used to get alot of BJs, but those have stopped. Maybe I get one a month. I love her, but i can't live my whole life sexually depraved. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): In can sympathize with your question because the same thing has happend with my boyfriend and I. I think it just happens after being together along time.... the thrill is kinda gone. We probably only have sex like twice a month these days, and I hardly ever do anything extra like oral. I'm perfectly fine with it, as it's all I feel I need now, and he hasn't complained. But if he did have a problem with it, I would want him to talk to me, so that I could make an effort to step up.
I'm sure your girlfriend feels the same way. She can't fix anything until she knows theres a problem.
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