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36-40,
*loridaOrange
writes:A few years ago, before I had my son, I was "talking" to this guy .J. but it didnt get to serious because he was in his first year of college and I was in my senior year of high school. We had the arrangement that when he was in town we were together and when he wasn't we were'nt. Which seemed to work well for us and during that time we became more of close friends than anything. A few months later I became pregnant and it was not his, we've remained good friends and he even became a major part of my son's life, like a godfather so to speak. He had introduced me to his friend .C. and overtime we also became good friends.. A few months ago .C. and I began being sexually together and we have not come forward and told .J. about it. .J. knows we are friends but doesn't know it has ever been of that natural.. How do I approach .J. and tell him what's going on? Or should I keep .C. and I's secret love affair a secret until it becomes something more?
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Oh my. You have some complicated stuff, girl. You have a son but not J. You had sex with J. J introduces C. You had sex with C. J and C are friends.
Dump them both J and C. Why on earth will you have sex with C, when you had J on the first place. You know how men share stories about their sexual exploits over beers? They will end up killing each other, when one of them finds out.
My advice - don't do that again.
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