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writes:Me and my boyfriend are settling down to having regular sex. It's getting more and more pleasurable and I now feel the need to call out/cry out a bit with the sensations. I'm very shy and self conscious though when it's so quiet at night. My boyfriend says its my life/body and should do a vocal release if I feel the need. Will I get more confident?
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reader, elisa_lee  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 It will turn him on so much more to know you're enjoying it, 100x better in my opinion. You don't need to shout or scream (though I love not being able to help it.. that didn't happen til the right time) - just try making a little noise, like sighs and moans. It might help to experiment with this while masturbating when no one is around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): why dont you put music on? that is what i do with any kind of self concious situation.
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reader, Little Lisa +, writes (3 January 2009):
Your boyfriends right, if you feel the need you should go with it. Try to relax and enjoy yourself, I'm sure you'll get more confortable with it in time.
Good luck!
Lisa
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