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writes:Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and say I am hot... but I've never had sex with any of my gfs. Now my question would be how will it be the first time when I will have sex and if the girl would be pleased... Now I think it will hurt for me because I am uncircumcised... Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, lalalalala  +, writes (3 July 2010):
Regardless to what you generally hear, it is very possible for it to hurt a guy circumsized or not
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reader, gflikesithard  +, writes (25 December 2009):
I'm 16 years old, and my girlfriend likes rough kinky sex, the fist time for me, it wasn't to much thrusting because my ex ex girlfriend, was a virgin, but when you get one that loves sex, and your uncirc, it really hurts, im uncirc, it killed me, i even bled a bit the first time, it started getting better and better but for future reference, don't have sex 3 times in 2 hours, it KILLS. I just want to let you know, it'll get better, but the more you stretch it, the better it will be. At night, or in the shower or when ever you can, just try stretching it and pulling it down over the head, and maybe Masterbating a little harder than you usually do. Try and get it worked in as much as possible before you bang. Hope this helped!
-Mike
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): alright check this out, i know exactly what your talking about, next time u get in the shower and have an erection pull back the foreskin little by little it is gonna hurt a little bit but before u know it u will be able to pull the skin all the way back, and since u never have pulled it all the way back your gonna have all this goonk between your head and you shaft, trust me just try it
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reader, lalalalala +, writes (25 February 2009):
i did a virgin and he said it hurt
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (4 January 2009):
woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha dude i have no infection. I think is because of the frenulum... but i don't know much info about frenulum..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Your penis shouldn;t hurt when you pull back ytour foreskin. You might have an infection. See a medical doctor.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 The skin does not necessarily go below the head when you have intercourse.. If at all it does, your penis is well lubricated with your pre cum and your partner's lubrication. So, it does not hurt.. It would obviously hurt if you try it normally while not having sex as you would be all dry and you'll have it in the back of your mind that it will hurt..
The skin that holds the foreskin would not come off and it won't bleed.. So stop worrying your head buddy.. A little pain is good enough for a man anyway..
G'day
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (3 January 2009):
woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really appreciate your answers!!! They are very helpful. But i was wondering somethin else: when i gte very hard the foreskin does not pull back behind the head... and it hurts to pull it. Now when im havin intercourse the skin obviously has to go behind the head...so i think it will hurt. And by the way under the head is like a skin that holds the foreskin to the head... will it snap when im having intercourse? What about any bleeding the first time? Thanks
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reader, daletom +, writes (3 January 2009):
I have heard that a tight foreskin can painfully pinch the erect glans on some guys - but if you have this condition, you'll know about it long before you attempt intercourse.
Let your partner know it's your first time. If she's a good choice, she will be honored, pleased to teach you, and especially considerate of your condition (mental and emotional as well as physiological).
Something like 94% of guys climax much too quickly their first time. Around 5% lose their erection and can't finish. The remaining 1% have considerate partners who understand your physiology and will help you to a preliminary climax before trying actual intercourse.
You may benefit from reading the threads "Will first time sex suck?" (at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-first-time-sex-suck.html ) and "I'd like advice about losing my virginity" (at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/id-like-advice-about-losing-my-virginity.html ).
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (3 January 2009):
It does hurt a little, but not much.. Actually you wouldn't even realize in the heat of the moment..
I'm uncut and it is ACTUALLY AN ADDED ADVANTAGE.. Uncut guys penis head is much more sensitive to touch.. Hence, we feel much more..
You'll enjoy it more than most of then and it won't pain.. Don't worry and enjoy sex buddy..
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Trust me, you have nothing to worry about at all. It won;t hurt; quite the opposite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): I have had sex with two guys who were uncircumcised in the past and I don't think it should hurt you at all because it has never hurt either of them. I do think before you have sex you should tell them to be a little more gentle or careful if they play with it. Let them know if the skin is pulled back too far it will be very painful for you. During sex though I don't think it will be a problem because when you are hard the skin will retract on it's own and then it's pretty much like an other penis.
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