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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: When my boyfriend fingers me I never let him finish, I always fake it. So after awhile it gets really boring on my part. He likes it so I let him do it, but it doesn't really feel good anymore. I don't want to tell him because I'm afraid it will make him feel bad that he has never made me orgasm. What should I do?
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reader, roadman +, writes (3 January 2009):
good point Phil I'd support that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): What you should have done right from the outset was to tell him that you weren't enjoying it at all and that the activity was boring you.
As it is, he thinks he's doing a great job because you're faking it. He also probably thinks you'd be disappointed if he didn't play with your bits and not only that, he could be bored with it as well!
You could tell him how to do it so that you do enjoy it, or move on to other things.
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