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Archived questions from: 27 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will it hurt or is it a right pain in the ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I'm 16 he's 17. And we've had sex before but now he wants to give it to me in my ass. Will it hurt? That's all I'm asking....

Do girls feel anal is humiliating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Do girls feel anal sex is in some way humiliating??? My gf and i had anal for the first time last weekend, and in the middle of it she started to cry. Of course we stopped, but at that moment she couldn't explain why she cried. After thinking...

Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(...

How can I get over always thinking he wants to be with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex last year while i was heavily pregnant with our 2nd son, and even though i hated him at the time i took him back. Now our son is 4 months old, and our first born is 2, and my boyfriend wants us to start ha...

Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...

I really want to have sex but I'm afraid that I'll get pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Hey everyone... My an my boyfriend are to that level where were ready to have sex. well i really want to do this but i'm afraid i'll get pregnant an i don't have enough money for birth control. He's goin to use a condom but i don't know if that will ...

How to Know You ARE Protected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Throughout the time I've spent here at DearCupid, I've seen many questions regarding sex, birth control, pregnancy scares, STIs, and the like. I've spent the past week doing a lot of research, and have finally come up with some things that will ...

I'm in a sexless marriage wanting more

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a sexless marriage now for over a year--irregular for 3 years prior to that. counseling hasn't seemed to help. I've been seriously thinking of a "friends with benefits" type of relationship rather than an outright affair and would like to ...

My ex is causing problems between me and my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I was sleeping with a friend/coworker. My ex came by my house drunk over the weekend. I was drunk too, worried about him driving. Let him into my apartment. ended up going through my phone. Found some questionable texts between me and this other ...

My b/f of 3 years is losing his sex drive and I'm not getting my needs met! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - ok so i have a horrible problem. my bf of almost 3 years is loosing his sex drive and im not getting my needs met . when he is in the mood i take care of him and i dont get anything. im going crazy i know hes not cheating. his sex drive is just ...

How do you tell your partner you aren't happy with the sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - How do you talk to a partner/lover about your unhappiness with the sexual aspect of your relationship? I have some issues with my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to talk to her about them, but the more I think about it the more I feel like an a...

Can someone explain erectilve dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hi could you tell me wot erectile dysfunction is and why you get it, and wot can be done thanks...

Could sex be used as a way to celebrate friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I have been working as an English teacher here in Poland. In about a month I am going to leave Poland and return to my home country. My issue involves two women. One woman is also an English teacher at the same language school that I teach at....

No sex after 8 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hy is he waiting for us to have sex after 8 months of seeing each other? Could someone please give me some insight on this?...

Boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend won't sleep in the same bed as me! We've been dating for a few months. Things have been moving pretty quickly as far as emotions go. But we have yet to have sex because I'm not ready. He has no problem with waiting. But when he spends ...

I have been taking birth control, Can I still be pregnant if I still bleed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - In the past few months, since November, I've been sexually active. I'm on birth control and for the most part, I take it at 10 AM everyday. Sometimes it's 1 or 2 o'clock before I remember it, but I only have sex like one weekend out of the month. ...

Should I tell her that I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Should i tell a girl i been on a couple dates that im a virgin? Im 22, she is 27 and definitely not a virgin, lol. Please reply soon cause im suppose to see her tommorrow.... Thanks a bunch *Mod Note: Fixed some txt speak. Please try to write out...

When will sex feel good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, the first time like a lot of virgins it was hard and I didn't really expect to climax because he couldn't get it into far anyway. The second time was a lot easier but even though we were at it for about an ...

I would like to finger her, how do I bring this up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

27 February 2009 (?) - ok heres the situation..ive been going out with this girl for about 5months now..we both love to make out..i was her 1st kiss and 1st make out..whenever she comes over we make out all the time and she stradles me and all that stuff but i really do ...

Could she be pregnant even with us using a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - hi to all of you out there. well me and my g/f had sex on the 24th and we used a brand new condom and i came inside her with the condom on my penis. could she be pregnant even thought the condom didnt break or it didnt have any leakage. this morning ...

Stuck between a rock and a hardplace

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Okay, to start it off.. .I will begin from the start. I met this girl 8months ago, we progressed and we got to know literally everything about each other. We talk about everything, we see eachother at school 5 days a week, and hang out around t...

Could she be pregnant from dry humping

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, me and my girl friend were dry humping. When I came, the seamon went through my pants(like over the waist part thing). And it got onto her tights, and onto her panties as well. She went to the bathroom and removed the tights and underwear af...

Is it weird that I am not obsessed with sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hey everyone, ive got a question. well, im 16 going on 17, i have a lot of friends, guys and girls, and were all pretty much open about everything, homosexuality, sex etc. well im just wondering, everyone around me is soo obsessed with sex, guys a...