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How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job????

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - How can I get my girlfriend to give me a blow job???? We've been together for over 3 months and made out a lot.. and I've done a lot of oral for her so I think it's just fair for her to do it for me tooo... see she's a little afraid that she won't ...

My girlfriend things it's wrong to have fantasies about me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - ok so my girl thinks it is wrong of her to have fantacys about me but i think it is hot so how can i ask her to see it my way idk how it is wrong to think of the one you love the most...

Self conscious about the size of my penis

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - i am 18 and i am a virgin. i have always been self concious about the size of my penis. i dont know if its average or big or anything. lengthwise, it is more than 7.25 inches, almost 7.5 inches and 5.25 inches in girth. i dont know if that would be ...

I'm bisexual but not sure if I could get an erection over a woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - i am a bisexual man of 21 inclined towards men(i dont have much of erotic feelings for women except when i masturbate forcing myself to think of women).But i am attracted towards the female sex..i.e i love flirting with women.now i am seeing this ...

My girlfriend doesn't want to do anything physical anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - Ok, so we have been going out since March 2008, we had a 1 month break in november and we got back together. Our relationship has always been great, but recently she got over the "honeymoon" stage and i havnt. She has told me she doesnt wan...

How do you know if a guy's using you for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - how do u no when a guy your "together" with is using u for sex ??...

Do you guys have any ideas and suggestions of what I should do to reduce being so aroused all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - Hi, I know you've heard a bunch of questions similar to this but it's kinda different... See here's the thing, I'm 14 and lately I've been feeling really horny and turned on. Sometimes for no reason at alll.. I have a boner when I go to sleep an...

My brand new BF bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel ...

Has anyone else experienced this kind of pain after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - I have a bit of a problem, I've been having bleeding during the month especially after having sex, which only stops when I have my pill free week. About a week ago I last had sex and ive been in pain since. The only way I can describe it is like two ...

Condom split! Chances of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - i had sex last night and condom split i am 5 days into my cycle what is the changes of me becoming pregant. many thanks for help ...

Turn him on in a van!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - cold nights here in england. Me n me bf ant seen each other because of this and I dont like going in houses because am really shy and my little sisters usually embaras me. We like to sexualy pleasure each other but not through sex but how would you ...

Different position hurt--is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - Hi, I have a bit of a strange question. Im sorry if this sounds awful. Last night whilst having sex we tryed a different position wth me bent over and I found it realy uncomfortable and i dont know if it was because he was going realy fast. it w...

How can I get my g/f to put out

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1 February 2009 (M - my screen name says it all! help ne one with advice been with gf for 12yrs have a 3yr. son i get close she gets pissed ne advice on how to approach her she tells me when she ready to have sex we will which of coarse i cant make her have sex with me ...

He tells my friends very sweet things but never says them to my face

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1 February 2009 (F - ive recently been fwb with an ex. he lost my trust towards the end of our relationship and was a lying ass but some of my friends believe he has changed after this time, although i am still skeptical because ive always found it hard to trust people. ...

I really like him but he said he has fantasies about being with boys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - Hello aunts and uncles, Sorry, this will be a little long. I'm in a dilemma. I've to tell the whole story to make the situation clear. I'm a 25 years old girl. I met a guy around 30 years of age at my workplace. I soon fell in love with him...

Do I have a high sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - I'm 16, and i have a very high sex drive... for example, if me and my boyfriend have sex, i'm always ready to do it again. Could this be because i don't orgasm, or do i just have a high sex drive? any help appreciated :)...

He has sex with me but there's a baby mama in the picture!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - hello..im 17 and i was dating this boy for 3 months and i found out he had a child on the way.were both 17......but when i found out about his baby mama.. we were still dating like it was nothing new....i didnt really care because he was with me ...

Sh'es gained weight & I don't want sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - I really and truly love my wife and she is also my best friend and i'm not a jerk but over the past few years she has put on some weight enough to shut down my sex drive i would never tell her to lose weight and i would never stray but i am also wor...

Should I ignore his texts or reply to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - Hello! I am in a stupid quandry. I have asked only a few of my friends what I should do and they both say IGNORE! Back in October a cooworker and I became attracted to each other and he proposed that we start having some fun together. Which ...

Back to the ex just for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

1 February 2009 (F - how do i keep from going back with my ex just for sex? That's really all I use him for, I don't know if he knows that. But every now and then I would text him to see if he wants to hang for a lil bit.. and of course he's a guy.. So of course he's ...

Why has my girlfriend gone off sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

1 February 2009 (M - I have been with my current girlfriend for about 18 months now. I am at uni, a mature student, she has a young 18 year old daughter with a young baby son of 8 months who lives away from her mother. My girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex any ...

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