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writes:I was sleeping with a friend/coworker. My ex came by my house drunk over the weekend. I was drunk too, worried about him driving. Let him into my apartment. ended up going through my phone. Found some questionable texts between me and this other guy. Called him drunk and told him he has HIV and needs to get checked. Now this guy won't hang out with me. I told him it was a lie, I was just tested in December so, know for a fact that it's not true but he's still acting all freaked out and says we can't have sex any more. My ex was just tested in September and that was negative.
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reader, tux +, writes (27 February 2009):
 When good intentions go bad... I commend you for letting your ex stay over when he was drunk. But with that in mind, you should have kept your phone in a safer place, had a phone lock on and kept it as that. But hindsight is 20/20.
But you need to talk to the current guy and tell him exactly what happened. IF he doesn't believe you, you can either chalk it up as a loss or let him come with you to a hiv test screening.
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reader, ISOHaven +, writes (27 February 2009):
You need to lay down the LAW girl! Your ex is obviously NOT a good person to have around as an ex or a friend. I know it's hindsight but you should have slammed the door in his face that night.He is having a negative affect on your life and you should put a stop to it.Are you needing help with "laying down the law?"
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