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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...

Should I stay in contact with him after such a rocky start?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 September 2013 (?) - Okay I just recently joined another dating site. It is a little different from the ones I have been on. It is a site for people who are spiritual and are into healing. I tried it out for free for about a week and then I get a message from a guy who ...

Was I wrong for being careful with a guy from an online dating site?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

27 September 2013 (?) - First, I went online to the dating site that I had been on and while I was off I had joined a few others just to make friends and pen pals. I sent a flirt to this person and he was a nice looking guy and a message also. He responded back to me and ...

Asking a guy out over facebook- urgent help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I want to send a fb message to this guy who I was studying with (our course is over, as of last week). I was intending to make a move last week, in person, but never got the chance. So now I'm resorting to facebook even though I know he ...

Do I text her or message her online? or is this weird, help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Was wanting to ask sthing... Ive been messageing a woman online for a few wks, shes only after fship, which is ok, i really need new friends. We seem to get along ok online, we decided to meet for coffee, public place, have seen each oth...

Was I right to block this potential scammer? What should I look out for in the future when meeting men online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

20 September 2013 (?) - I had been on a site corresponding with a guy who is possibly a scammer. His messages were removed due to spam and this guy has had 3 different usernames and his story has changed. First he said he is a widower and has raised a son by himself, then ...

Shouldn't we get to know each other a bit more before we actually meet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - Hey fellow aunts and uncles, i started online dating about 6 months ago and i was a bit disappointed with it as it was always older men or creepy messages i got :( However this really cute guy messaged me, just the normal how are you?. We started ...

I just want him to let me go!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for over three months now. He has serious commitment issues, which he warned me about. He never had a long term relationship, and less than a handful of them were monogamous relationships. He agreed to be exclusive because ...

What went wrong? She's been distant since I told her I stop flirting with different girls on twitter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

16 September 2013 (M) - Hello, i am a bit confused and i would like some advice. I have noticed a change in a female i recently met at a party about 8 months ago. because she lives quite a bit from me, we have been communicating more on the phone and on line. Ho...

People think we're crazy...do you think this will work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - Ok, I met someone online and talked to them for about a month. I got him a job working out of town with me (he Skyped with the HR person and was hired). Since this job is 2 hours out of the city, the staff live on site. So "Charlie" came out and we ...

I went on a date and he seemed bored/tired and made little eye contact. He mentioned meeting again, but did he mean it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - I went on a date last night with a man I met on a dating website. He is new to where I live and so he had his profile up to meet local people. We had been exchanging texts for a while, he stopped talking because he went train (he's in the US Coast ...

Should I pay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - So I am Back into the dating scene after I took some time off from my last relationship to recover so I went to online dating to try to find someone since I have a busy schedule. I connected with this guy and he asked me to go out for a drink so 1st ...

I thought I had met a nice guy online but I think he was a liar. How do I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

11 September 2013 (?) - I was corresponding with a guy online, we are around the same age which was good. When I read his profile he said that he was a widower and was left to raise his son by himself. He mentioned also that he is a very shy person but adapts well to ...

My LDR friend said he loved me then blocked me! Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I'm feeling very confused and even more so after asking for the help of my friends as all of them have very conflicting opinions! So I was hoping you could offer some help and advice. I will try not to make this too long whilst not missing out ...

I've seen her on online dating sites but she won't admit it

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

6 September 2013 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for just over 18 months. Recently I have found her 3 times on dating sites. We have argued and almost broken up over it. Even though I saw it with my own eyes, she is still denying it. Is it just a bit of a joke? or ...

My boyfriend ignores me but doesn't like it when I don't respond right away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

6 September 2013 (F) - My bf can be quite bad at communicating. I see him on the weekends only due to work/distance. However during the week we hardly speak. He isnt soneone who likes talking on thr phone - its probably only happened a handful of times in our how ...

Online dating: How long do you wait to ask someone out on a real date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

6 September 2013 (M) - I have been messaging this girl on a dating website for 3 weeks. How long do you think I should leave it until I ask her out for a drink?...

This guy I have spoken to online is already pressuring me to do things

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

5 September 2013 (?) - I recently had a conversation with a guy online and he kept asking me for my email address and I told him that we just started chatting. The other guys get mad if you don't have Yahoo messenger or Skype. I'm tired of these guys getting mad at me an...

I get cold feet as soon as I get a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - Hey all! So I've joined a dating website and have been approached by many people. I like the attention and getting dates is not the problem. Its going on them. I get cold feet a day before a date or when a guy fixes a date. I stop talking and...