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Online dating: Help and advice

No experience with players. How do you know if a guy is one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I need advice on dating. So, I haven't gone on dates for over 12 years. My ex-fiance and I were together 11 years and we did not even dated we were collage buddies. We have been separated for over a year now. I recently signed up for online ...

My online boyfriend just used me for money!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I meet my bf online 4 months back. Initially he was very sweet. And always told me he loves me very much. We never meet face to face. He is financially a broke. I helped him pay half of his house rent once. He also didn't have money to eat food I a...

What should I do about a guy I met online? He didn't reply to a text but had time to log in to dating site.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Please need some advice! I have been going out with a guy I met online. He told me he only had one other girl friend in his life ( hes 37). He was quiet and seemed lovely. Well it's been 4 dates. As we have great chemistry he has spent the...

LD Girlfriend with male bestfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship (on the game SecondLife), and my girlfriend has a male best friend on SecondLife. They have known eachother for 3 years now or so. She is the type that only has guys friends and admits it. I've only known her ...

Is it usual for guy 1 to ask about other dates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - Hi, another internet dating question. If you are talking to more than one guy, is it usual for guy 1 to ask you if you've got any other dates lined up? Basically guy 1 chatted to me for ages, and when I asked to meey.him he ssid he would if he w...

If he is who he says he is then I'm definitely interested

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - I'm a smart, successful, attractive woman in my 30s, and, even though I have very progressive, healthy attitudes towards dating and sex, I can't help but feel a bit like an idiot. I went out with a man I met online last weekend who was new to the ...

Question about on-line dating etiquette?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - Hi guys, so I'm new to online dating. I put up a profile yesterday and thus guy initiated a conversation, which then led to him giving me his number, and then we exchanged a few more messages outside of the site. He asked if I'm looking for frie...

Red flag or not? He has an inordinate number of 20-30 yo beautiful girls as friends on FB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

22 October 2013 (F) - Is this a red flag or nothing at all? I found a college friend on Facebook. He's 57 and I'm 52. Looks as if by his profile he's a nice normal guy. Loves animals. Not a million pictures of himself. Nor a million 'friends'. Posts insight...

Why does it have to be complicated when we had a great time on our date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (?) - Okay so I went on a date with this guy I met him at a coffee shop and he looked really good. We had a nice time talking and laughing. Before we had met he came on really strong when we were texting each other. He would text me telling me how b...

What's the etiquette for your dating profile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - Online dating question! When do you take off your online dating profile? ! I have had two great dates with a guy I met online but notice he is CONSTANTLY on the dating site! I know it is very very early days but I still notice. Yes I have l...

My widower partner on chat rooms to women - this is ultimate betrayal and cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - hi, I am a female and i have been with my male partner for 6 yesrs. he was widowed in may 2006 and I met him on match.com in September 06. he has been hard work due to his three steps forward two steps back routine and he just has periods when he ...

Why does he suddenly seem distant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - Why does he suddenly seem distant? I've been chatting with an old high school friend for about 4 months. We've been talking everyday (facebook, skype, phone, etc) and it was pretty intense-talking about the future, him telling me he misses me, al...

I care for him but take his words with a pinch of salt..am worried I'm a rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles! Thanks for taking the time to read, I'll try not to be too repetitive in the telling :) In summary, I met this guy J online. He's got a lot (and I do mean A LOT) of baggage to work through, not the least being that he br...

Is he after a relationship or is he alright being friendzoned with benefits

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

9 October 2013 (F) - I met a guy online with the promise of sex without a relationship. That's great, because I'm a college student that really doesn't need a boyfriend but wants a good time now and then. He lives alone. His girlfriend moved out and he seems pretty ...

Cyber sex gone wrong!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (M) - dear users recently i made the stupid mistake of delving into the cyber sex cam world on skype. i had been talking to this girl for a while and it kind of got to what youd call online friends with benefits we ended up camming, and im sure yo...

Met online. Should I be feeling uncertain because he doesn't necessarily show that he's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - This may be a little long, so please stick with me. I recently joined a dating site. I've never done online dating, but I'm really shy with guys in person, so my sister suggested I try it. Among all the creeps, I actually met a semi dece...

Deletes all his texts from girls. Is he hiding something or am I crossing the line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend deletes all the texts from other girls. Well he knows that I am jealous and I have confronted him for flirting with his colleague and knows that I sometimes go through his phone. (Please don't judge). Now he deletes all the texts with ...

He's in jail now. When he gets out do I tell him I was a prostitute and other things about my past?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

4 October 2013 (F) - So I'm talking to a man, who is currently in prison for a charge he caught at 17, for burglary. He gets out in 12 days, and I plan on spending time with him. We write all the time and I have met him. My problem is, he wants to know me, like rea...

Hurt and broken over an online relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

4 October 2013 (F) - Dear cupid Im talking abt the same guy i found out has a gf a year ago. An online relationship that i wrote about that was hurting me and later realised that all along was a lie. im completely to be blamed for staying in this relationshio although...