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Marriage problems: Help and advice

I thought my husband was having an affair. He was sneaking out to eat fast food

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1088 days ago

27 November 2021 (F) - My question is basically "Was I so wrong to be this concerned?" Been married for 13 years; we married after 2.5 years of dating, married mid-2008. From mid-August to last month, I suspected my husband was having an affair, he'd always go out in...

Do I confront my husband about his work crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1088 days ago

26 November 2021 (F) - I have no idea if I’m overthinking this so I need some advice please. 3 years ago a new girl joined my husbands workplace. He would sometimes mention her but not excessively. She is in her 20’s and very attractive (engaged) so I kind ...

My wife accuses me of cheating when I don't the says she will cheat to get even

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1089 days ago

25 November 2021 (M) - Hello, I work as a sales manager for a company where we sell a certain type of industrial product and sometimes I have to assist customers with on site repairs and solving issues. Today, I had such a problem. I told my wife when I left at arou...

Does my wife secretly hate me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1087 days ago

23 November 2021 (M) - I caught my wife spitting in my food the other night. She’s been in a constant mood with me for months on end and I can’t deal with it. I’m fed up of treading on eggshells around her all the time. The problem is she won’t ever admit anything i...

My husband is having an affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1086 days ago

23 November 2021 (F) - I recently found out from one of my friends that my husband was cheating on me after they sent me an email with a link to an influencer's post which showed my husband cuddling up to this young woman wearing a crop top and the text: #couplegoals. ...

I am beginning to wonder if my marriage or myself can be saved

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1092 days ago

22 November 2021 (F) - I moved from America to India to marry my husband 7 years ago. Things had been going well, but after almost 2 years in lockdown (very strict in Mumbai) I'm losing my mind. I don't speak any local languages and even if I did, I'd never have anyone ...

My husband left me to live wit his male friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1092 days ago

21 November 2021 (F) - This is a strange situation but I'll ask anyway. My husband just upped and left me after 4 years of marriage (we've been together 9 years as a couple), went to live with his best friend, a 28-year-old, and now says he wants our 5-year-old daugh...

Menopause causing sexual problems and I am afraid of losing my husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1094 days ago

20 November 2021 (F) - Hi, I have been struggling with a really difficult situation and I could use some help here. I have been married for 10 years. My husband and I have always had an awesome sex life. He brought me to orgasm multiple times. I used to masturba...

Can I save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1058 days ago

19 November 2021 (F) - Hello, So i got married in August 2021. I have been questioning the marriage/relationship for the last three months. So in September me and my partner decided to break up because both of us said we didnt think we were happy anymore. I left th...

My wife's obsession over bills and no sex has lead me to having an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

15 November 2021 (M) - I'm a 33 year old man who's been married for 5 years. I am writing in embarrassed but I caused the problem and don't know how to get out. I've been having an affair with a 24-year-old woman since September and this has all been because of my ...

My wife won't go topless at a nude brach

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

14 November 2021 (M) - my wife and I have been to nude beaches and she likes looking at nude men and I would like her to take herr top off but she refuses...I don't understand why...

I am just not interested in my husband any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1100 days ago

11 November 2021 (F) - I am married and for whatever reason I am no longer sexual involved with my husband. Lately I’ve been turned off by him and I’ve been stressed out by him. Previously I loved having sex with him on a daily basis. He he usually turned me down and ...

Why am I always the one initiating sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1100 days ago

9 November 2021 (F) - I’m always the one who seems to say about having sex to my husband. He hardly seems to mention it but I do and I don’t know if he wants me in bed anymore. We usually have it 3 to 4 times a week but I’ve noticed it’s me who says it alot to have it. ...

Where did this sudden spending spree come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1109 days ago

3 November 2021 (F) - I've been stressed lately, and money's the issue. Been married for 3.5 yrs. Not that we're struggling financially (I'm usually well-informed on finances better than my husband is), but the fact my husband siphoned money from our joint ac...

My husband is a paraplegic. I thought toys would be enough but they aren't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1111 days ago

1 November 2021 (F) - My husband is a paraplegic. We have been married for almost two years. We only can use toys as sexual pleasure for me. I thought it would be enough and I would be okay with that I really am missing the real thing. He was upset at one time because he ...

The love is gone in the marriage and I'm flirting with a coworker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1111 days ago

1 November 2021 (F) - I am married and have been with my husband for ten years and married for six years. There is honestly not much left of our relationship. The love is all but gone. All we do is argue and we are both miserable. My husband has anger and mental health ...