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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (19 November 2021):
Have you actually asked her why yourself? She's the only person who can tell you the reason? All we can do is speculate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2021): The solution is easy! Stop going to nude beaches! I don't get it. People are practically nude in bikinis and speedos anyway. Leaves nothing to the imagination. Even less when they remove those teeny articles of clothing! Too much importance is being placed on utter stupidity! You are a married couple who is presumably mature and out of your high school years. Start acting like it!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (18 November 2021):
 Your wife may be working up the nerve. It may take her several visits.
She's there for what she wants, not what you want. Likewise with you, so just make the experience a relaxing and pleasant one for yourself. Nevermind what she or anyone else does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2021): Why should she ?
It’s her choice
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2021): If she fancies bearing all for guys to see get her a job in a topless strip bar or lap dancing club, at least she gets paid for it there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2021): You sound like you took her there so that other men can ogle her and lust after her. Unless she is a total bimbo and sleaze ball of course she does not want a load of perverts and sex starved tossers looking at her breasts. How insensitive and how nasty can you be? The next thing you will be telling us is that you want her to flirt with the guys of have other lovers while you watch.
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (16 November 2021):
 The odds are she doesn't feel comfortable. Why can't you just accept her decision? You do your thing let her do hers. Respect how she feels and let it go. Keep the peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2021): Why ? I guess because she understands that at her age her breasts do not look so great to deserve a public exhibition.Very tasteful and wise of her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2021): Let her be. If you take her to nude beaches, but she feels better with her top on, what's it to you? Do you have a problem with her looking at nude men? Kind of hard not to, when they're parading around in their birthday-suits up and down the beach. I think the point is to be seen.
Enjoy your freedom to go buck naked, and let her keep her top on. I don't know what you've come to DC for? We don't know your wife, and we can't demand that she takes her top off at the nude beach. That's a matter of personal-choice. You choose to be fully nude, she doesn't. Compromise. Let her do her thing, and you do yours.
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reader, kenny +, writes (15 November 2021):
 Who know's why, maybe she is not as comfortable with her body as she was in her younger years.
Does she give you an explanation when you ask her?.
At the end of the day you just have to respect her wishes.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 November 2021):
 She is in her 50's, so she probably isn't enthused about showing off her boobs as much as she might have wanted in her 20's.
Her body, her choice. You don't have to "understand" why, you just have to respect her wishes. Not hard.
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