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female
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41-50,
*wonders
writes:My husband is a paraplegic. We have been married for almost two years. We only can use toys as sexual pleasure for me. I thought it would be enough and I would be okay with that I really am missing the real thing. He was upset at one time because he was worried he wasn’t going to be able to please me. I am not sure what to do, I love him more than anything, I seriously just need to find something that is more intimate for us. Thanks for any advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (5 November 2021):
This is a "specialist" question that requires "specialist" advice which I doubt you'll find on this site.
In the UK there are several charities that provide advice and support for those with spinal cord damage and their loved ones and I expect there are similar organisations in the USA too.
Search for them online and post your question on one of their forums. I expect you can post in the UK forums too and hopefully get some honest and sympathetic answers from people who've experienced similar.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2021): You are being vastly unrealistic. Paraplegic is no joking matter and greatly compromises an individual's quality of life.
I think you may be sending this enquiry out of curiosity because you wish to be informed of the limitations of paraplegia.
If you use your common sense you would soon be able to figure out the answer.
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