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Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband who is away does not seem as sexually interested in me. Is it my imagination or are his needs being met without me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1335 days ago

20 April 2021 (F) - My husband and I are having a major problem right now and it is my hope that the aunts and uncles here could serve as mediators to our ongoing argument. My husband will be reading this if posted. He is in South America for 3 months. We have ...

I don't think our marriage is going to work unless I just hold everything in

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1316 days ago

20 April 2021 (M) - I won't go into the lengthy background but my wife and I have been together for about 10 years. We've had our ups and downs, nothing big - nobody has ever cheated or anything like that. But the biggest problem we've always had is not that we argue ...

What will be the fallout/possible outcomes of my husband divorcing me for another woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1338 days ago

19 April 2021 (F) - I've used some affair jargon in this post, and also, names have been changed. OW = other woman AP = affair partner BS = betrayed spouse HW = homewrecker STBXH = soon to be ex-husband WS = wayward spouse If you see these in this post, that ...

Husband's ongoing affair with big name woman in our town. I don't know how to handle everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1341 days ago

19 April 2021 (F) - I've been married for 3 years, then later found out my husband had been for our whole engagement (a 3-year-long one) and marriage sleeping with another woman. But the identity of this other woman is a local news anchor, she's a big name in town...

My husband and mother in law are making fun of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

19 April 2021 (F) - my husband is making fun of me all the time in front of others; when I said that huts also he is repeating, and my mother in law is also taking it as an advantage and making fun of my skin tone, really hurts as I am susceptible to those things ...

I found out on my birthday my husband has been having casual, meaningless sex with another woman!!! How can I ever trust him again?/

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1344 days ago

14 April 2021 (F) - Can ANYONE here tell me HOW and WHY A MAN can go behind his wife or girlfriend's back to GET A BLOW JOB or HAVE MEANINGLESS CASUAL SEX here and there and CLAIM to LOVE his wife or girlfriend??? And PRETEND to be committed to his primary ...

My husband has changed. He's turned into a Christmas freak and watching gay porn

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

12 April 2021 (F) - OK, so I'll cut a long story short, but I'm worried over finances. For the past year, my husband's been obsessive over Christmas, spending large amounts on extravagant gifts, and buying large amounts of sweets and crisps and encouraging our kids to ...

My 45 year old husband wants to quit his job and work for the Australian army

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

11 April 2021 (F) - My husband told me yesterday he wants to quit his job, aged 45, and work in public relations for the Australian Army for 18 months. He works in sales and doesn't want to work from home any longer, claims working for the Army in public relation...

Can a relationship that started as an affair have a chance at succeeding in the long run?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1346 days ago

11 April 2021 (F) - I am one of the rare mistresses who gets her married man in the end. He divorced his wife, sold the home, split assets. All the kids are grown and out of the house. And now we are together legitimately. I can walk on the street with him hold...

My husband took the kids and left me for his dominatrix lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

11 April 2021 (F) - I found out on Wednesday that my husband left me and took the kids to move in with his lover, who's 35 and a dominatrix. The note read "I've gone, aint not coming back because youre not the personn I fell in love with and Ive taken the kids j...

Lack of care, or being over sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1349 days ago

9 April 2021 (F) - Trying to cut a long story short. I have had various problems with my Heath since giving birth to my second child 7 months ago. Over the past few weeks I have been suffering with pain down below and this evening it was so bad I couldn’t move from ...

Husband's secret past is worrisome

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1350 days ago

9 April 2021 (F) - I've been married to my husband for 3 years now, and found some quite strange pictures of him online by accident; the photos were of him wearing a bikini and leather skirt, and him eating a doughnut. It was a rather old-fashioned website with loa...

My husband wants me to Cuckold him, I don't understand why

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1242 days ago

8 April 2021 (F) - Hi I am really hoping you ladies and gents can help me! 2 weeks ago my husband asked me to really consider letting him watch another guy have sex with me. This has thrown me hard, I don't understand it. He says he can't explain his reasons behi...

I have a serious health issue and haven't told my husband because I know he won't be able to deal with it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1353 days ago

7 April 2021 (F) - My husband has had for a while now bouts of anxiety and depression. he was diagnosed with ADHD. I know that he tries, but his problems always come first and he finds it hard to deal with life in general. Everything is too much of a burden for him. ...

I want my husband to quit working so hard so that we can have a life together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1351 days ago

6 April 2021 (F) - I have put up with my workaholic husband for 28 yrs in all this time I have got used to being second to his work. I guess it my own fault really I should have left him years ago but he a good man and I love him no matter what. Now he’s getting ...

How do I cope with my husband's cheating/divorce our daughter and moving back and getting a job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1355 days ago

5 April 2021 (F) - My husband told me yesterday he and his co-worker have had feelings for each other since August 2018. His co-worker's 34, married with a 5-year-old son, and considers my husband his "soulmate" and claims the feeling's mutual! We're American ...

How can my husband and I obtain common ground so we can adopt a child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1354 days ago

4 April 2021 (F) - Not really sure where else to discuss this. I've been married for 4 years and my husband and I both want children. Not our own, but adopting a child. I didn't want the medical issues that came with pregnancy (my mum told me that giving birth to...