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Marriage problems: Help and advice

How do I approach my husband about his flirting and asking women for photos?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - My husband has a history of massive flirting with the opposite sex. This was taken to another level once upon a time where I secretly checked his phone and he asked this particular girl for some sexy photos of her a**e. (Bearing in mind she'd al...

I want both men but can't have them both!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

28 July 2016 (F) - I have been married for 3 years, but the past year and a half, my husband completely neglected me and took me for granted. I tried my best to save our relationship by trying to go out more with him, talking to him, looking sexy for him, finding out ...

What are some good tips and ideas to help get started on repairing the trust I broke with my husband when I cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I have cheated on my husband and I told him about it, it broke him completely and he is just hanging on by a thread with what little piece of heart he has left. He feels that our whole marriage of 2 years has been a lie because I broke that vow a...

My husband doesn't want to move but I'm feeling isolated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been together for more than 7 years now, 3.5 years married. When I met him, I had just moved from my hometown to his area for college, and I swore to myself it was temporary. I told him it wasn't fair for us to date, since I ...

I feel we have a blessed life. Yet due to his responses I ask, am I married to a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - I am wondering if I am married to a narcissist? I have been with my husband for ten years and I have never cried so much in my life than I have in these ten years. When someone says you are lucky to have the wife you have or your wife is bea...

I'm so sick of the games that my husband's ex has been playing. When will this stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - When do the games stop?Do we have to grin and bear it? I have a situation where my husband and I have been married for twenty years. My whole marriage the ex has been in the picture with his family. I came along 2 years after they were divorced. ...

Could this be the end of our marriage ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I love my husband. We've been together for almost 15 years. We are in our late 30's now and don't have any kids (we both agree on that). We have weathered many storms (financial difficulties, moving away from our country of origin...) and s...

Should I stop worrying about him and continue working on myself ? My husband is being very cold towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - My husband and I have had a rocky marriage of 4 years. I have a very good share of the blame for that, as I have been very selfish and immature in our marriage. On my husband's end, he is very controlling and emotionally abusive, pretty ...

I don't want to let go of someone I love but my husband keeps on responding to this girl on line. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been with this man a total of 7 years married for 3 and he unfortunately feel in a web web of lies with one of his friends from another country.. And he sent her inappropriate messages and a video of him self " releaving...

Every one she has cheated on me with was a guy. I wonder, what should I do?.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I am a 25 year old stud lesbian I've been with the same woman since we were 16. We are married. She is the love of my life and couldn't picture one minute with out her in my life But we have had are bad times we have both cheated on each other I ...

I have major TRUST issues. Is this my karma for my actions? Or is this all I deserve?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I am a single Mother in my late 20s. I honestly think I will always be single. I have major trust issues. My own doing. As when I was 20 I had an affair with my friends Dad who is the father to my Child. As you can imagine yes I left him a...

What to do? He says if I don't work out with both of them then he wants a divorce

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - My husband had an affair, after I found out and got past the initial shock, I approached his mistress. Asked her to have a threesome. We did, it went well. It didn't take any of the pain away that I am feeling, like I guess I hoped it would. ...

He's abusive and then buys me presents. Mixed signals? What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Hi all! Back here again to seek your kind and generous advice. I have been married for 3 years and have a two year old kid. During the past three years I've had a lot of ups and downs with my husband because we have totally different personal...

I love my wife but she is causing me distress. What do I do with this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

14 July 2016 (M) - Hello this is my first time to ever post on a relationship site, but have had problems with my wife for many years and have even separated for a year and she made all these promises that things would be different. She has a problem with drinking...

How would you handle seeing this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Hello I asked this question not very long ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-bear-this-deep-hurt.html Thank you again to those who replied you did help a great deal. I have just another question to ask and that should be my fair s...

I thought I stonewalled my wife from saving up for breast surgery but she's raised money on a website!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

11 July 2016 (M) - Angry at wife for finding her on a free breast implant website. How should I make her stop? I've been married to my wife for 10 years and we have two children together. Six months back, she said to me how unsatisfied she's been with how her bre...

How do I bear this deep hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) - Thanks in advance to anyone who reads this to help. How do you move forwards after your husband has betrayed your trust? He has, in my eyes, emotionally cheated on me with another woman who he messaged more than he's bothered messaging me in ...

Saw 6 Condoms in His Travelling Bag

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Please my big brother and sister in the house, Am married for two years now, we have a daughter. Recently my husband job entailed him travelling a lot. He was travelling today and he took six condoms,he ought to be away for 6 days. I saw it in his ...

How can I explain that I need some help with the housework, even though he works full time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - The past 3 years I have been a homemaker. I've taken care of all household cleaning and food preparations for my husband. I'm now in the process of starting an online shop to sell my artwork. For the past few months I've been working on creating...

How do I get him to stop jumping for anything his wife wants and see that his wife is trying to control him?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - I am married and have been dating a married man for 3 yrs.Neither of us are having sex with our spouses. He says he doesn't love her but if she wants to do something and we have plans he just doesn't call me to let me know. He waits until after ...

Is this fair? I've developed depression due to my concerns. Should she be contributing more? She leaves me to pay everything in order for us to live

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

2 July 2016 (M) - I'm feeling incredibly depressed lately. Be been married for 1year, we've been together for over 6years. I really do love her but I feel like she is bringing nothing to our relationship. She got a great degree from a state university, she cou...