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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Health category)

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We've been together for 4 years but I now I'm torn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now and are living together.Now I've kinda hit a point where I'm torn.I need help as to what am i doing wrong or how should I take this.Every now and then my boyfriend hits these points where ...

How can I help my sister who has spiralled into depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - My sister had faced reality and spiraled into depression. I urged her to seek therapy (not just because of this last episode), but in the meantime she needs support. How can I help her more? Some time ago she had a month long fling with a guy...

Could my body after weight loss be turning men off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - I'm a little worried about this. So, i used to be quite large, about 84 pounds overweight and lost most of my weight the last few years. I'm thin but not as toned and obviously have a little loose skin on my stomach in particular, especially the ...

Do I contact him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - im not sure how to go about this and would rather see it from other peoples views. A year ago i joined a dating site i met up with a guy i had already had 1 date with previously couple of years earlier. we drifted apart and lost contact. Anyway last ...

Is his interest in this activity normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2494 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I'm not sure if this is an issue, but it's been on my mind. I have a wonderful boyfriend. I love him to death. We're pretty sexually active, and I can't help but please him. It's just that despite all the sex and oral we do, he's always asking to ...

My attempts at sex were horribly painful. How do I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - Uhm so about two years ago me and my friend lost our virginities to each other. We were both drinking but regardless of being drunk it was insanely painful for me. We tried so many times because I thought I was being a wimp but the pain was ...

I’m not sure I even want to meet her, she’s way more experienced and she’s suspicious of me and me of her, but we’ve been chatting 6 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - Did I do the right thing? Am a gay female, quieter loving and quiet person, been out of the gay scene a while, been years since my last girlfriend or date. Have tried dating apps this past 2years and met 3 people. One now a friend, one wa...

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

He doesn't want my advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - What should I think of this? I'm feeling negative and weird about it. I've been together with my boyfriend for over only half a year. I think it's natural to make suggestions for someone you care about when they are going through a problem. He is ...

Why do you think he unblocked my number and responded to me, and do you think there is

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2494 days ago

23 January 2018 (F) - I was seeing someone ( we would have been together exactly a year next month) , but he broke up with me just over a week ago. We had an on and off relationship . He broke up with me because he said he has depression and was put on anti depressa...

Is it wrong of me to say I would leave my girlfriend if she became an addict? Is it right of her to say that I can't keep things that might "tempt" her around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2497 days ago

23 January 2018 (F) - I was having a conversation with my girlfriend the other day about her being upset because her brothers have started smoking weed again. I have no problem with weed. I've smoked it before myself, but apparently for them it starts them on harder ...

He's abusive and I need to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - I'm going through a really difficult period in my life and don't know what to do. How to restart and go on... I'm 41 and have been with my husband for 15 years, no kids. Good times and bad. Well now things have gotten pretty bad. The good times y...

I just found out my brother is HIV positive and I'm extremely worried about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - I am 35 and my brother is 31. I found out last week that his chronic diarrhea was misdiagnosed as tropical sprue, but was actually HIV. I am from the caribbean so my family is still there, but I live abroad in the States. I have been for more than ...

I’m feeling guilty for our breakup!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - First of I was married for 7 years I have two boys they r young 3 and 7. I divorced my husband can give a straight reason we just didn’t get along couldn’t work as a team. It was like we where against each other all the time. He was depressed and I ...

Is my diet likely to work?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

15 January 2018 (F) - Hey there folks. I am an unfit teen who is grossly over weight. I have heard about the apple a day thing. Does that work? I do excise Monday-Friday for about 40 mins. My mother has bad very bad eating habits, which I have grown up with and she'll ...

Am I an evil step mother?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

14 January 2018 (F) - I am a stepmother who will be inheriting my husband Home instead of his adult child. I want responses on whether * am the evil stepmom everyone fears. Here is my story. My husband was a widower when we married,that was 14 years ago. His daughter ...

I’ve been the primary breadwinner for most of our relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - I have been dating my partner for 2 years now. Before getting together I expressed to him that as a single parent with big goals I need someone motivated who will pull their weight and he said that was easy. At the time he was a manager at a loca...

How can I help him with his terrible snoring?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid. I need advice on how I can help my partner with his snoring! My partner and I have been together for just over three years. In the first year, year and a half my partner barely snored, we had a great bedtime routine. Fast for...

Will waxing my upper lip hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

12 January 2018 (F) - hi y'all, I'm 20 yo girl and have a kind of a moustache. it doesn't bother me a lot tbh. I only waxed it once (mum did it for me) and it kinda hurts, so i can't trust anyone to wax it for me( not even myself).. I would like to shave it, but i ...

Some advice on circumsision please

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

12 January 2018 (M) - I'm nearly 26 years old and uncircumcised. In my country, only a certain religious group practice this. But now I hear it can be done as a medical procedure and it is beneficial for hygeine and is actually recommended by WHO. Am I too old to do it ...

To love, or not to love, that is the question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

12 January 2018 (M) - I really don't know how to put this out there, I normally like to keep things pretty private, it's simpler that way. I am interested in dating again after many years of being alone. I meet women all the time, lovely women, but there are some t...

I’m stuck, I feel alone and lost!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2240 days ago

11 January 2018 (M) - Hi, I'm struggling with life at the moment. My relationship is a mess and even though i want to make things right i just don't seem to be doing anything right. Work is the same, i have a great job and career but due to the troubles of life my repu...

Did I speak out of turn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

9 January 2018 (M) - Hello. My friend has a son and downplays his eating habits. It’s not serious according to her as it’s just a learning disability. He is 10 years old and only eats fast food, usually French fries, pastries or chicken tenders. I’ve seen this almost ...

My girlfriend doest take care of herself and has no ambition

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

8 January 2018 (M) - Is it me? Is it her? Are we fizzling. I feel like my gf of 4 yrs doesn't make effort. Everytime we are going out we isn't putting effort in. I don't mind until I realised its everyday. In my family my mum and sisters always make sure they presen...

Will he break up with me because I don't like giving head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and things seem to be going well. However he keeps asking for a blowjob which I'm not keen to do. I've tried it with him for a tiny length of time but really really dislike it. I've told him this. ...

How can I have sex without feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Why can’t I handle intimate relationships? When I get intimate with a man it’s like my power and common sense go away I feel so weak and vulnerable. I look at my ex”s pics on social media after a year and a half and I see him with another woman and ...

Help me find a way to get our problems out in the open

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - How do I speak to my partner about things that I'm slacking on? Short backstory, my partner and I have been together for a year and a half, we live together, I am disabled and don't work but can still do most things for myself, and he is pretty...

I am worried about oral sex and hygiene

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

5 January 2018 (M) - I've been in a relationship for a while now. She's coming over for the weekend. This will be the first time we'll be alone together in a private place. We've talked about being physical and we're both ready for it. I want to please her sexually. ...

My new wife sunbathes topless and I've seen other men looking

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - We are in honeymoon. My wife did topless tanning in a beach with a lot of people. I dont feel so comfortable with this so I discussed with her. She didnt like it and she told me that I am jealous and that she did it only for tanning. I accepted it ...

Boyfriend wants sex on demand, what about what I want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - I love my boyfriend we been together nearly a year but he always wants sex in the morning and I just don't and if I don't have it when he wants he gets into a strop all day and just walks off and if we go out he will just walk miles in front of me ...

Uh Oh! My girlfriend and I are related!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I are related, found out after 30 years but are great great grandparents are cousins??..I love her to death and we have a 4 month year old daughter but what should we do?...

I believe he has ended things for good this time and I just don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - Hello everyone I've been with my partner for 4 years and we have a 21 month old child together. My partner has always been very loving and caring. However, from the second year, I started to emotionally drain him - I would say nasty things and...

How do I enact new behaviours so my needs are not negated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - I have a question about what to do regarding a specific behaviour by a friendly couple. I am thinking about this in a general context of re-evaluating my own behaviours within friendships (and relationships with men) because a consistent, recurring ...

Help me stand up for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - This is more of an etiquette question but it involves my two biggest pet peeves: ppl who CONSTANTLY talk to me when I'm reading and ppl who come over uninvited and help themselves to my food/chew up my time. It doesn't matter where I am, I co...

I get an erection during foreplay but lose it during sex. What do I do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - Every time I try to have sex with my girlfriend i instantly get hard during foreplay but as soon as I am ready to have full sex I lose my erection I don't know what to do I love her very much and want to please her sexually ...

My boyfriend suffers from ptsd. Do I give him ultimatums?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

1 January 2018 (F) - Yesterday i hoped i would see in the new year with my boyfriend but didnt , reason being he had been in hospital ( for a week ) over christmas because of his ptsd ( which i was aware of before we got together ) and was let out yesterday evening. He ...