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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Should I apologize to my married co-worker for the touchy feely session we had?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - Hi there. I'm a gay man and recently went on a work trip with a straight co-worker (who knows I am gay).We went out one night and got very drunk. We ended up back in my hotel room having a nightcap. We got to taking our shirts off to compare bodies, ...

I really liked her but she changed jobs and I don't see her now. Do I tell her of my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - I really like this other woman who I was working with and felt close to her. I am really shy and confused. I think about her all the time. she moved jobs and now I don't see her but still keep in contact. Do I try and tell her that I have feelings ...

How to prove that he is not cheating while its 99% he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - Hey there I met a guy online through a gay dating app 3 months ago, I am 30 and he is 20 years Things were fine , I liked him from the first beginning and I couldn't get enough from him ! he said and acted the same ! I had trust issues with hi...

I have a crush on her, but is she just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hello, So I am a lady who dates ladies. I have this amazingly gorgeous co-worker who isn't on my team but in my department and sits around the hallway from me. I honestly have no idea if she's straight/gay/bi, in a relationship, etc. She doesn't...

I have never felt love like this before, if I'm to do something about this, what would people advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - My boyfriend and I split up almost a year ago. He had to move to abroad due to work. And, because of my work and financial position I wasn't able to go with him. We tried to make it work, but unfortunately the distance and the pressures of bo...

How do I tell my friend without offending him that he is way too touchy for my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I would love your advice with things please, please take into account im gay and things between gay guys are much more "homosocial" than normal: a) I have a dear friend who gets very touchy feel-y. He does this with everyone, but I feel unc...

The woman I love shows verbal abuse and tells me to leave her but I love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with this woman for over 2 years but the past few months she has been an emotional wreck she lost a loved one and her job nothing really worked out her..because of which I have been subjected to verbal abuse like "asshole" ...

My 17 year old daughter has told me she is bi-sexual. I've accepted it, but I am very upset by this news. What's the best way for me to go forward?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Yesterday, my 17 year old daughter told me she is bi-sexual. I have noticed for a couple of months that she has been very distant from everyone except me. I asked her to tell me what was wrong and she eventually told me. I am very proud of th...

Why do you think I haven't heard from her? Is she waiting till I contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3503 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - So I took a girl out on a date almost a week ago. She was very confident and poised and calm. She was definitely flirting with me, and when we were in the car she would look at me all the time and smile and when I would drive fast she would sa...

My boyfriends ex is like a ghost around us. I wish he would let go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

16 May 2015 (M) - Dear All, I am in a relationship for a year and it goes really well and we are still in love. Of course little arguments happens time to time at the end everything comes to a good sweet end. So I might say things go pretty fine and well. By the way ...

I want to stop this secret relationship with this girl but not sure what to do. What advice can you suggest please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3508 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - I’m in a relationship with a girl like me. We’re both straight but we really like each other that we end up together. This kind of relationship is really weird and new for us. I don’t want others to know about us cause I feel embarrass—I’...

What am I doing so wrong that my girlfriend gets to treat me like crap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3509 days ago

14 May 2015 (F) - If someone could offer some advice right now i would be very greatful, it might be a little long. Basically we have been together nearly three years and things just arn't right at the moment. About four days ago i was asking about her day and f...

She is 42 years old. What do I need to consider when I go on our first date together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

14 May 2015 (F) - Modnote: later correction made to title based on followup post by the Original Poster .................. Hello everyone I am dyslexic with a So if my English is hard to reaped I apologize. Well everyone I been out from seven years I dated wom...

I don't really know what happened between us and don't know how to play it??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - So I work in a restaurant, and I was at the bar when like the hottest girl in my whole town comes in and orders a drink. She recognises me, and while I'm doing the drink she says "so you've probably seen facebook" and I was like, "erm yeah last I ...

Despite knowing that we were never meant to be together, why does this break-up hurt like it does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - Hey there. I've got a pretty basic question. I was in a relationship for about 7 months and things were good. We were extremely healthy. Never fought, got along great, and the sex was awesome. But deep down, I always knew she wasn't the girl...

I've fallen for a gay man and I always thought I was straight. How can I explain this to family and friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

10 May 2015 (M) - Okay so I thought I was straight until about 8 months ago. I was in a relationship with a girl we broke up cause she cheated. I got over it, sort of slept with a few girls and then one day I come across this guy on Facebook. For some reason I was...

My bf wants me to come out but I feel that I can't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 May 2015 (M) - So I'll try to make this post as short as possible. I'm 31 years old gay guy ! I live a very conservative city , I work as an academic staff in a University. I'm in love with a young 23 years guy We have a very strong relationship (8 months )...

My partner is a full time carer for her mum. How will this affect our life together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F) - my girlfriend now cares for her mum full time. Her Mum has lupus and other health problems. she lives close by and has a one bedroom flat and her mum is in a one bedroom flat that is warden controlled. thing is though my partner is her full time ca...

I like guys. Yet lesbian porn turns me on. Does this mean I might be bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

5 May 2015 (F) - Okay, so first off I know it's impossible for me to be a lesbian because of my strong romantic, emotional and sexual attraction to men. I don't have an emotional or romantic attraction to any woman and never have. I remember in 9th grade, two of my ...

I'd like to hint to her that I think she's hot. How do I bring up the idea of maybe going for a drink?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

4 May 2015 (F) - So I am a closeted bi sexual girl, and am really attracted to this girl at work. I was speaking about this girl to a work colleague who told me she was gay, however I really don't know if she fancies me, or what to say to her to make it seem tha...

I would like to have a real future with him. He is married and he and I had a relationship earlier. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) - I have had an affair with a guy for about three years and I ended it when I realised he was not going to leave his wife. We have been on friendly terms ever since. Now, 4 years later I am going trough a really,really rough time and he helps me ...

Have a crush but I don't know if he's gay, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

3 May 2015 (M) - ok so i am 13 and i have a major crush on a guy im bi-sexual. i have a girlfriend but i really like him he is so hot but theres a problem, we dont know each other too well and i have 1 period with him in which we are across the room from each other! ...

My boyfriend is 20 and is getting frustrated that I want to wait. (I'm gay and a virgin). Should I ask him about that Phone call? Or allow sex to happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

1 May 2015 (M) - Hi, so I'm gay, my boyfriend is 20 and I am eighteen. Anyways, I'm a virgin, but he isn't. Last weekend I told him I was a virgin and wanted to wait on sex, and he was kind and very understanding. Well, a few days ago, I heard him on the phone with ...