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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I really like this other woman who I was working with and felt close to her. I am really shy and confused. I think about her all the time. she moved jobs and now I don't see her but still keep in contact. Do I try and tell her that I have feelings for her or will she reject me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2015): We have no idea if she will reject you. Everyone takes that risk when expressing their feelings to someone they like. I think you should keep it light-hearted and say something like "I think you are amazing! Are you single?" If she is, then say "Want to grab lunch one day next week?"...If she isn't single just say "Lucky guy." And continue being her friend. If she says she is willing to go to lunch take it from there. If she does not want to, still be her friend and don't take it personal.
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