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Archived questions from: December, 2019 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

There is no physical chemistry, which makes me think he is not "My Guy"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1784 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been dating a friend of mine who confessed that hes had feelings for me for a year now, and since I just got out of a toxic relationship he said he had to tell.me how he felt before I started dating someone else, hes a great guy, ...

What is this girl doing? Is she into me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1773 days ago

30 December 2019 (M) - This girl at college stares at me a lot. Ive walked over to her while with her friends a couple of times to make conversation but I ended up speaking with her friends and she walks off, not instantly but usually pretty soon after. She has the mo...

How do I stay friends when I want much more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - I have been interested in this guy for years, we have been in almost constant contact for years, he worked away and didn’t want to be in a long distance relationship. All of our friends say they don’t understand why we aren’t together and I’m ...

He's left without me, after planning to spend NYE together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1789 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - I have been seeing someone for 3 months. We have been taking it very slowly but the past 3 weeks things have been progressing more and I have met his mother and a couple of his friends. The other day we were talking about New Year’s Eve. Original...

It makes me uncomfortable that my husband is on an app with my friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1781 days ago

26 December 2019 (F) - I am married with 2 children . My husband and I have had some difficulties mainly with his temper but we've work on it alot and things are alot better. A situation has come up which I'm struggling with and am looking for advice to deal and gain some ...

I'm worried about my friend giving money to a man she met online

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1788 days ago

25 December 2019 (F) - I’m concerned about my friend. She met a man online. I think it was on Facebook. They have met 3 times, he lives far from her so she travels to see him. He is unemployed apparently. He does ask her for money. I found out she does give it...

My boyfriend and his crazy ex .... I'm wondering if I should just leave them to it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My partner and I just got back together, and he has female friends and he slept with all of them. This one in particular that he keeps in contact with I really hate her because she was his gf before we got back together and she did some really nasty ...

My partner spends a lot of time partying with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1794 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - So me and my partner have been together around 4 years. For the most part it’s been good. My issue is his time spent with his friends. They get together about 3 times per week. His friends are mostly single and they party. Whenever they see ...

I feel so low right now, how can I get overmy crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1795 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - So, I've been crushing on this guy for at least 6 months now, I'm almost certain he just sees me as a friend, and I desperately wish I could get rid of my feelings for him and I know nothing will happen. But I've fell for him so hard, I feel utterly ...

I’m the third wheel in my own relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

19 December 2019 (F) - Hey guys :) I'm from Philippines. Have you guys been in a situation that feels like you're the 3rd wheel in your own relationship? I'd be honest, I think I am or maybe I'm just paranoid. To make the long dramatic story short, I'm in a relationship ...

I've recently broken up from my manipulative boyfriend, however I'm feeling sadness and jealousy.M!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

19 December 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've recently broken up from my manipulative boyfriend, however I'm feeling sadness and jealousy. When we were still together, I've always told him that one of my friends is really pretty and I do admire her beauty, he said that ...

Wife doesn't want to move to be with me because of her friends

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1796 days ago

18 December 2019 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 4 years. We got married after two years, lived together for a year in our home state, then lived together for another year in Illinois as I attended school for my military career. My wife and I are both quiet...

Co worker was upset I didnt take her advice on a matter.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

18 December 2019 (M) - This lady I work with who said she's attracted to me got upset today after I didn't take her advice on a matter. I teased her about it respectfully and she told me she was mad right after and said 'no one here listens to me'. I told her she was ...

How to deal with a best friend who buys cheap gifts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

17 December 2019 (F) - My best friend and I have always made an effort to buy each other nice, thoughtful gifts for birthdays and Christmas. The average amount we spent on each other was about 60$. In the past two years, I have noticed that she has been buying me i...

LDR boyfriend won't come to see me for Christmas but will go see a friend whose father died

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1799 days ago

16 December 2019 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. He lives 2 states away, about 8 hours per drive. We had a little spat a few weeks ago, and patched things up. However, because of this spat, he told me that he would not be coming home for Christmas. He said I ...

I like him but don't want to ruin anything at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1801 days ago

15 December 2019 (F) - I have become friends with a guy who I go out patrolling with in his car due to burglaries in our area and part of a group. We get on well and can talk about anything which is helpful when out for an hour together. He does like to tease me and ...

Can anyone help me understand my friend's behavior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1793 days ago

13 December 2019 (F) - I've known her for 8 years and lately she has been behaving very strangely! I've known there is a big void between us, not alot of closeness anymore like we use to be and usually when I say I care for her opinion most about how she feels she closes ...

Friend's emails are confusing and making me wonder if he's asking questions for himself or my estranged husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1802 days ago

13 December 2019 (F) - Ok everyone, I have just recently left my husband. No communication or anything I just changed my number because he was being very horrible to me. In the past he would sometimes get a friend of his to email me for him as my husband cannot w...

Help with two friendship situations please

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1799 days ago

10 December 2019 (M) - Dear all, I have two recurring situations and I seek your advice on it. I’m very sensitive to who are around me as friends and acquaintances, people who I think have questionable behavior or ethics (mean, rude, dismissive, arrogant, poor m...

A friend is basing all of our interactions around her 9 year old son and I am getting weirded out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

9 December 2019 (F) - I entered a graduate program (2 year length) last August where I met Wanda. She is about a decade older than me and is married with an elementary age son. I am married in my late twenties. My husband and I moved to a new part of the country just so ...

A girl gave me a Christmas card, what could the mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1389 days ago

7 December 2019 (M) - A girl who I label as my friend had given me a Christmas card. What does this mean? For the past 11 weeks, I noticed that she is the only one I treated as a special person. I honestly did not know why. Possibly because she is my partner as the s...

I'm planning to visit my LD boyfriend in Germany and he has ditched plans with me to spend time with his friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - He I've been in a long distance relationship with a German guy for a while now, but I'm just at a point where I feel frustrated and undervalued. This is the issue we're currently having: He told me he wanted me to spend Christmas with him...

Why am I being treated different to the other's in the friends group?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1811 days ago

1 December 2019 (F) - I’m not sure what to make of this but i know I don’t feel good about it and wonder if there’s something I did that led to this: I’m part of a group of four friends... one of the friends (A) just purchased a new place, and was telling me about...