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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This girl at college stares at me a lot. Ive walked over to her while with her friends a couple of times to make conversation but I ended up speaking with her friends and she walks off, not instantly but usually pretty soon after.She has the most beautiful eyes and her staring at me is driving me crazy but she has a boyfriend so Im confused. The staring is so obvious at times too.The last 2 times Ive seen her face lights up with a big smile and a wave but we were both doing our own thing and we both carried on.I wont be at the same college so I msged her and asking if she wants to meet up in the future and she said she isnt free for at least a couple months and I said thats cool. Im not sure if shes blowing me off.What should I do? Is she into me or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2020): sounds to me like shes definetley interested in you....i think you should directly ask her if shes seeing somebody...if her answer is "yes" then just be your charming self around her, and continue to message her once in awhile..she knows you like her..if her current relationship implodes one day,she'll contact you..hey- life is short-think positive...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2020): If you know she has a boyfriend, and she walks away if you approach; you shouldn't do anything.
She may find your features interesting or unusual; or you may have an outgoing-personality that grabs attention.
Staring doesn't mean anything. You might even look peculiar to her; or remind her of someone she knows, or hates.
Just be polite, respect the fact she's taken; and feel flattered, if she just thinks you're a fascinating person.
Don't make moves on her in-front of friends who knows she has a boyfriend; it's not cool!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 December 2019):
 She has a BF.
THE END
Don't go chasing after girls who ALREADY have someone, it's a sure way to get hurt or.. cause drama that in the end leaves you holding the turd.
Lastly, IF she "hung out" or "hooked up" with you then how good of a GF is she, really?
She might have pretty eyes but come one, you aren't going to be dating someone "pretty eyes" hopefully you'd want to date a whole person, someone who would be a good match for you.
Is she interested? Eh, not really all that much. You might be cute and that is why she stares, or because she sees you admire her. It's not that deep, man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2019): I think you're reading into it too much. I think you're seeing what you want to see. Shes' not into you.
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reader, N91  +, writes (31 December 2019):
 Man you’re at least 26 years old, grow up.
She has a partner for goodness sake. Would you appreciate someone trying it on with your GF?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (31 December 2019):
 Dude, she has a BOYFRIEND. How would YOU like it if someone was hitting on a girl YOU were going out with? Have some morals.
Also, NOBODY is too busy to meet up for "at least a couple months". She hopes you will take the hint and back off. In your shoes, that it exactly what I would do. I suspect she has been winding you up to see if you will bite. Not a nice thing to do but then hitting on someone's girlfriend isn't either.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (31 December 2019):
 She's got a boyfriend, when asked to meet up she said she's not free, what do you think?
I think you are reading more into than really exists. She's blown you off and its time for you to move on.
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