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Archived questions from: 23 June, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Reassurance needed. Is there something wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I get a lot of compliments on how attractive I am..I'm pretty shy normally, but if I had to be social I could...I like to laugh and could be silly at times..I'm a pretty laid back person most of the time... There was this guy I liked in college...

Help! How do you know if a guy friend wants to be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - How do you know if a guy friend wants to be more than friends? The first time I met my guy friend we were close and best friends. I knew he liked me and I started really liking him. Then he became distant and didn't like hanging out with me. He ...

When is it that friendship starts becoming destructive and harmful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I have a very complicated situation with a girl... I used to work with her, and we would talk all the time at work. After a few weeks, I was completely smitten with this girl... and it was around Christmas at the time, so I bought her a really e...

I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpo...

Am I wrong to feel slighted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have a friend who I have done a lot of favors for --I have helped her out with her daughter a lot, picking her up at school, keeping her after school, during their son's ballgames, etc. We also have invited this girl over to play after school, on ...

I really love him and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for like 12-13 years and i have feelings for him and i love him! I think he uses me as he only wants to no me when theres no one else around but i always say yes I'll come out if he asks me because i love him i cant say no, O...

My friends are advising me to cut her off but I'm not sure what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - So I am currently seeing this girl... we both expressed our feelings towards each other recently and she really adores me and she admitted that she found happiness with me, honestly she is everything I ever wanted, but she has some problems in her ...

Caught watching porn by my brother's friend... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - earlier today i got caught looking at a pornish video and im really embarrassed about it. let me explain... ok so i was talking to my friend on IM and he linked me a video that was supose to have a funny ending, i told him i didnt wanna watch it b...

Emotion of a teenager

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Am 20 and am being shown some concern by a girl of 17 since i started visiting their home. My friend who is their neighbour usually passes by to say hi because i know this girl's elder sister, so any time i don't see my friend he used to be there at...

I need to know what's going on rather than wait in limbo.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi There, I guess what I am about to ask you for advice on - most people already have.... BUT I seriously dont know what to do.... I met this guy 2 years ago...we get a long and when we first met each other we said would see 'how things go'.... t...

Ghosts of past relationships are eroding our trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over the past year. I love him unconditionally and the moment we started dating, I have been nothing but faithful. Before I started dating him, I had a past - as all relationships do. I had had sex with one...

Stuck in the middle of you!! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have two best friends. My bestest friend Noureen* really likes this guy and has done for over a year, and he's just told her after them doing sexual stuff that he never wants to see her or touch her again (hes a horrible person). She has also, may ...

Does he seem like a player?

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23 June 2009 (F) - hey! well me and this boy have been talking for a little, he always comes over, he is very respectful to me, we don't go out, heard he hooked up with a girl, but he kept asking to chill with him, he came over my house for a little then left to his ...

Cool theme for an 18th birthday party?

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23 June 2009 (F) - Anyone have cool ideas for an 18th birthday party? Since it's holidays where I am now many of my friends are away but I have about 12-16 people who would come. I have a pool and a function room at my condo but that's pretty much it. Also would like ...

How can I get closer to my friends without appearing clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - This is the 3rd question I have put up about my friends, well kinda, and it might not be the last, but thanks everyone for your support. Okay so I've survived the first 2 days back at school after my friends bitched about me and then left my sleep...

I am unsure what I want with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Another follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-kind-of-gift-would-be-fun-and.html OK, my situation is that I am unsure about what I want with her, and I think she is the same with me. I do want a friendship, but I want more (rom...

I don't know what to do and am terrified he'll reject me!

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23 June 2009 (F) - I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in ...

Scared about meeting my guy's friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - So tomorrow I'll be meeting my boyfriends roomates for the first time. He lives with his best friend of 10 years and his fiance, so it's a little more important than just meeting his friends for the first time, more like family. I'm completely...

I need more confidence but I don't want to be like my mouthy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - hi aunts and uncles i'd really like to know how to be confident i've never really had the confidence in myself and i've never known how to have it either. everytime i think positive something knocks me back so i fight back and try again. i'v...

I like this guy but don't want to be made fun of because I like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Ok...So this is a long dilemma that I have. Right so...I kissed this guy on a night out about 4 months ago. We were friendly, that is that we talked on nights out if we bumped into each other. Anyway that night (that we kissed) we had been flir...

Will my friend resent me if I got with her friend?

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23 June 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been interested in my best friend's (girl) best friend for a few months now. My friend said if I hurt her she'd kill me.. I would never hurt her intentionally by all means but what if things did lead to other things with this girl? Would ...

I need to move on and find new friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I need to move on and find new friends... I'm 17, and this kiddie stuff needs to stop. When they are around I get stiff and angry, and can never be positive around them because of issues in the past. My 2 old best friends are now besties but...

Boat betrayal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My very committed boyfriend has a best friend who is another girl. They have been best friends for years and had a sexual thing once (despite her feelings for him which lasted much longer) but seem to only hangout and talk when I am not around. He ...

She was my best friend as well as my girlfriend but now her parents are sending her to a different school...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so this is what happened: I am a girl and about three months ago my girlfriend and I started going out without telling anyone. Then he parents found out and her mother especially wasen't to keen on the idea of us since we're both girls. For ...

Would it be silly to start a relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Ok, well I've started to become more and more attracted a guy I'm good friends with. We text each other nearly every day and I have been told he likes me, but he doesn't make any moves, except from the regular "hey, how are you doing/how's your day ...

Do you think he could have only said no because his friends were there?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - There's this guy I like but don't talk to!!! I know weird!! Anyways this weekend at the fair my bffl asked him if he liked alison (name changed) he said alison who? My friend told him and he said umm i dont know her..... Then she refreshed his ...

Why is he confusing me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Well, I am confused about his guy. I signed up for yahoo personals, and out of 160 matches, he was the only one that caught my interest. turns out, he messaged me first! i was so excited, thinking he must be interested. we exchanged 2 emails thru ...

I introduced them and now they're texting one another, thing is I liked him first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay so I have this best guy friend whom I love like a brother and he knows everything about me and I feel super comfortable with him, the thing is I introduced him to my best chick friend about a year ago and now she gave him her number and she ...