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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm too devastated and don't know what to do. I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me and treated me awfully, calling me names and basically blaming me for everything. What did I do? Well nothing, almost. He couldn't deal with my past. Once he asked, I told him what he wanted to know and it was chaotic. So next ...

I know he's stalking my internet profile...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm a bit confused... Llong story short... we were friends for a long time... had a fight didn't talk for 5 months... then he said he missed me a lot and wanted to go out with me... I agreed... 2 months went by I said something he didn't like ...

I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I'm trying to work out if I should be worried or if my insecurities are shining through. My new girl that I have known for 5 months and been going out with for 6 weeks met my friends today and we all had a nice time. Problem is, she spent the wh...

I love you. You love religion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Dear cupid... Well first let me say that you must be at least this tall to ride my emotional roller coaster. Age; I'm 16, she's 16... high school. Don't laugh. I swore to god that I would never fall in love. Now look at me. There wa...

What can I do to get his guard down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Okay, here's the deal. I'm basically with this boy.. but were not exactly official! he claims he wants to take this slow.. which is completely understandable being that we both just got out of something hurtful and we've been at it for 2 months now. ...

I hate rejection - I have a fear of being rejected solely on my looks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - There is a girl in my History class that I recently became attracted to. We haven't had any prolonged contact besides this year of school. She is sending me some mixed messages that I don't understand. She'll tell me about her personal life and all ...

Silent treatment after six months of constant contact

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Six months ago I met a man on-line. We e-mailed each other several times a day, talked on the phone constantly and developed a great friendship. Being on different coasts I suppose made it safe for him. He's 43 and has never been married and ...

Boyfriend - bestfriend troubles...break up,or stay and lie ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Please Help ! I don't know what to do, I've been coping on my own for so long, I have a boyfriend, I've been with him 2 months on xmas eve... we have been together before, quite a few times but I have always broke up with him mainly because I...

Why do we do this to each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I am sorry for the long story I tried to make it as short as possible. I got married in 2000. 2 months before I got married I tried to tell my parents and friends that I do not love this person anymore and she doesn’t respect me like she did whe...

Depressed and confused, did she mean more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Did she mean more? This guy I've liked for a while, got into a relationship over the summer with a girl who he hung out with, texted constantly, made presents for her and planned to fly to see her on his spring break. However, he flirted with oth...

Do nice guys finish last?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...

Said he was getting back with ex but then starts dating someone new not me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm in the very common situation, where i have strong love-like feelings for a friend - who i've only known since September. But these feelings are real, I think about him non-stop. However, i'm a little confused right now and was hoping you c...

She's been abused and has mood swings, but I want to help her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I am having trouble dealing with a friend who is recovering from an abusive relationship. And I am asking "What do I do next?" I am at wit's end and ready to give up... but I love her and don't want her to fall back into a bad situation. I ...

Allowed to stay for a couple of hours then home by myself on the train while fiance stays!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Could you please help me! I am going to my fiance's works night out, but he's only allowing me to stay for a couple of hours! He said I have to get the train home myself while he stays at his friend's house. I think he has plasnned to meet up when ...

Why did he delete me from his Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hi i met this guy through a friend of mine at his birthday party. anyway we got on well etc and basically we added each other on facebook. weeks passed and then one day he spoke to me on facebook chat application and we were having a...

He says there's something about me that's pushing him away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - What do you do if a guy you're dating tells you there's something about you that's pushing him away from you? and when you finally confront him about the issue he tells you that, he wants to be just friends with you?...

I want to change my shit life But how??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I wake up in the monings and never know what to do my room gets mess a lot but I don't see the need to tidy it up cos I have been wating for my room to be decorated for 6 years. I go to college to see my friends but when I come home I don't kno...

Bad taste in guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Would a very skinny guy fancy a fat girl? When I am round a very skinny he doesn't want to be seen with or talking or even acknowledge me all because I am heavy and short with a chubby face. I am nice person and I have good taste in jewellery, ...

Friends... or lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so I began to like this guy and all that... And we dated for a period of time... Like about a month. The reason we broke up is his 'best friend' tried and succeeded in breaking us up like the bitch she is. Anyways so after we broke up.. I still ...

My girlfriend hates my friend should I distance myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Here's one for you. Firstly, I'd like you to read this situaion, and tell me what you think. There is a girl I know. When we see each other, we hug, perhaps kiss on the cheek, are really friendly with one another. I call her gorgeous, or...

Am in love or lust with best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I need to know if I am in love with this guy I have known since first grade. he’s also my best guy friend which makes this so much harder. my friends say they think I am. but I don’t feel like I did the first time I was in love, I mean its the same ...

He made plans with me, then took another woman shopping, disrespectful or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - A friend who is male and I had plans to do something one day and I made plans to do something that day and set aside time. He text me the day before saying that he had to go out of town. Later that week I discovered that he took a woman shopping ...

What does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - We started dating and everything was fine until we had sex for about 2 months and next thing i know he says he just wants to be friends but he still acts the same but we aren't having sex anymore. Soo I don't know what he wants?...