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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Married woman feeling very guilty over feelings for a married man, how do I get rid of these feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - i have a male friend who is married and we have been friends for over 4years. I am married also, happily, and that is why i am very confused as to why i'm having such feelings for this man. We have never done or said anything inappropriate or menti...

How I can I work around my feelings so that I don't end up fired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Hello, I started a new job a little over a month ago. I love it a lot and definitely do not want to have to quit. However, I am extremely attracted to one of my managers ( the one that hired me no less!!) Whenever she's around I can feel my hea...

I'm obsessed with my teacher and I've been harrasing her by e-mail

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Okay there is this teacher that I am like really obsessed with and I harass her lot on email sending her stuff saying I love her I'm not a lesbian or anything it's just every time I see her at school I just think she's everything. I know it's ...

I don't want to disappoint my pastor by dating someone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - So, there's this girl that I really like. Last night we spent over 5 hours Skyping and playing truth or dare over Skype (It got pretty hot) and, by the time it was done, we had both seen each other PARTIALLY naked. But she is just SUCH a sweet ...

Cant stop thinking about the married man who is 30 years older to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met a married man who is 30 years older than me and has a child the same age as me. He lives in a different city in a different state. After a long flight back together I can't stop thinking about him yet he feels nothing of the sort for me and ...

I've been heartbroken over my former teacher for the last year

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I really need help. For the past year I have been in love with someone. He is a lot older than me. He also used to be my English teacher. I gathered the courage to tell him. He was very understanding about it. I keep having sleepless nights and when ...

Why did my boss do that? Is it a sign of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - hi,im an accountant in a private company.my boss was four grades senior than me and he looked very appealing and warm all the time...its been 6 months I got my job there. yesterday my boss sent me a message asking me to come to his cabin..it wa...

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for...

Long distance and age gap relationship forced to end because of pressure from his family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with a lebanese guy for over 2 yrs. met on a dating site for age gap relationships (hes 25, im 43). after a few weeks, we were inseparable. hes christian and im from the uk. leb society doesnt accept unusual relationships, ...

I'm 17. My family have banned me from seeing my 29 year old boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hey I'm 17 years old and live in England with my parents, brother and sister. I don't really get on with my family, my parents have said on numerous occasions that i'm a disappointment to them, and they favour the other two children over me. I ...

How should I ask him to dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hey everybody, So here's the deal. I think I've fallen in love with my cousin, and no matter what anyone says I'm not gonna change my mind, because this is love. I can't control my emotions. I met so many guys but I can't get over him, Every time ...

I slept with my brother in law's nephew, now my life is a mess. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - My life is a mess. I've been sleeping with my brother in law's nephew. We were both dependants in the same house, i because of my sister who married his uncle. The affair went on for about a year and a half until we were discovered in june this year ...

I love my step-sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

18 August 2011 (M) - About 3 years ago, my Dad met someone online and started to date her. He took me to meet her family, and she had a daughter. Over the last year and a half, I've gotten really close to the daughter, and I think I'm in love with her. I really can't ...

Completely infatuated by an older married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

17 August 2011 (F) - I met Craig* almost 6 months ago. He's in his mid 40's and as the title states, he's married. He also has children who're close to my age (I'm 21). We're in a band together and meet once a week for band practice so, I see him fairly often. I ...

Why do some women choose to start relationships with married men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - There seems to be a disturbing amount of single and married women going after married men on this site. I am just wondering, what makes a married man so irresistible? Does anyone think it's sexy that he's living and having sex with another woman ? ...

We're having an affair. I know we should end it but its so hard!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Dear cupid...I am a married woman who is having an affair with a married man for nearly 10 months now. I tried repeatedly to break off my relationships and so has he but we both keep getting back together. We are very much expressed love for each ...

Would you pursue a forbidden relationship just because he is your astrological match?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Do you believe that there are people who astrologically are meant to meet each other? (not necessarily stick together forever) You might find astrology silly, but it shows that there are people who will eventually find each other, no matter the ...

Tragic troubled past. Will falling in love with this Police Officer make it worse? How do I get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 August 2011 (F) - text This is Your Average "Im In Love W. My Teacher Story". Minus The Average Part and There's Alittle More Excitment Then That.. This Is Your "In Love with a Cop Story" My Life. This Great Untold Story That Everyone Has Started Eighteen Years Ag...

Does my teacher like me in a friendly way, or is it something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 August 2011 (F) - Hi. I've been having weird feelings about my English teacher for about two years. We're great friends and also a friend of my father. He's a very sweet person and very humorous. Basically, everyone adores him. He's a favorite of practically e...

Fell for him at a spiritual retreat, he's married, how can we pursue this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - Hi all, I met this guy last year during a spiritual trip, and I fell for him completly. I thought he was my soulmate but then found out he was married. He seems to be in a loveless relationship. I am so willing to pursue him, and also I think th...

I am considering asking this guy out, but not sure if I should.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

7 August 2011 (?) - I am considering asking a guy out on a date. He works in a building I'm doing work on (construction renovations). I run into him often with my coworkers and boss. I see him often because of work. We look at each other a lot. We are friendly...

How do I stop my passionate crush on my teacher, who is 20 years older than me and married??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Ok, well I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's about 20 years older, married, and his wife's pregnant. I always seem to think of him all the time, no matter what I'm doing. I also lust after him, and most recently I've been having fantasies of ...

Is it ok to have sex with my first cousin once removed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

7 August 2011 (M) - I have been thinking of having sex with my first cousin once removed is this wrong? and should I do it? thanks...

I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend... I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

4 August 2011 (F) - For a year I'm inlove with a boy from my boodle. He lives in the same block of flats, we study in the same school, he is 16 like me. For a year he is the boyfriend of my best friend from the boodle who is 17. I told her I like her boyfriend and she ...

Fallen for my boyfriend's brother and having sex with him too! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 August 2011 (F) - im falling in love to my boyfriend's brother? we are having sex too..i can't help it anymore i love my boyfriend brother so much! what should i do?...

How do I stop my mother from sabotaging every relationship I'm in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating my current boyfriend for about 2 months now. I have met his family and friends.He hasn't met mine due to scheduling and distance issue but, that will be changing soon. I see him about once or twice a week because we live an hour ...

I've developed feelings for my friend's 16 year old son, how can I make this go away?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - Well here goes : i'm just 40 (look about 30-32-so i'm told)n seem to be having a mid-life crisis!! I've lost over 6 stone and feel great. Background: I'm married with 2 young children and a lovely caring husband who is the same age. Problem: ...