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writes:For a year I'm inlove with a boy from my boodle. He lives in the same block of flats, we study in the same school, he is 16 like me. For a year he is the boyfriend of my best friend from the boodle who is 17. I told her I like her boyfriend and she was ok with that and even thankful because I let her know and didn't lie her! Everything seems ok, the boy and I are good friends and the girl is still my best friend... Even 10 minutes later I'm going out with my best friend. You may ask: where's the problem, then? Here it is: I see my beloved nearly every day and it is only me who knows what it costs to me to behave naturally. I can't forget him and my love.3 He likes me as a friend. I am really plump and he is really athletic. I know I have no chance, but can't help loving him.3 Please someone help me! I need advice!
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Well, if I may be allowed to give you one tip. If you want to keep your friends with you forever, never ever fall in love with their love interest. If your feelings are reciprocated by the guy, that will be the fastest way you can lose your friend.
Actually, it's not too late to stop this fire from burning but please think of your friend and that will be enough motivation for you to stay away. Many times in my circle, I see friendships destroyed coz of this. Guys are everywhere so it's not difficult to find someone for you. Once your friend has him, don't dare think about him as an interest at all.
Therefore, as you can still control your feelings, drop him in your list. Stay away if possible, do the psychological technique that he's just like your cousin or brother. Anything to turn you off.
Boyfriends come and go but best friends stay forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): I don't know what a boodle is, but that's alright. This is dangerous territory and unless you are willing to ruin your relationship with your best friend than you need to forget about him. If you can't then tell your friend how you feel first and then maybe approach him. But my best advise is forget about him. No boy should ever come between two best friends.
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