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anonymous
writes:My life is a mess. I've been sleeping with my brother in law's nephew. We were both dependants in the same house, i because of my sister who married his uncle. The affair went on for about a year and a half until we were discovered in june this year and he was sent out of the house.I no longer live in the same house too because they moved to another city. I stayed behind because of my job, so i started living with my aunt. She travelled to another country for 3weeks and when she came back, i had gone to another city for business where i am. She called my sister asking her why i didnt say a proper bye and just left suddenly. So i called my aunt to explain but instead she started shouting at me that im a prostitute (apparently someone told her i was still meeting this guy while she was away),im a disgrace to everyone,i pretend to be a magazine reporter when infact im just chasing men.why am i still meeting this guy when we are related, even though its not a blood relation but we're still related, no one can come to our wedding,what kind of a person am i,i have a degree but act like an animal. She said all sorts of nasty things and im hurt. This guy is older than me but he hasnt achieved much in life,school is difficult for him. I love him but i cant sacrifice everything for him. I told him that we're over 2weeks ago,even before my aunt shouted at me. But it seems my life is destroyed anyway,my reputation,everything...i dont know what i can save, everything seems ruined...im so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): don't make a big deal out of this , you're not actually sleeping with your brother in law , you slept with your brother's in law NEPHEW , nephew it's okay there's no blood relation , they have nothing to do with you guys and you should make them understand in a very calm way that it's nothing wrong and the only reason why you actually couldn't confess about seeing him and stuffs(to your aunt) it's because she would act the way she acted.. like yelling at you and stuffs.I've gotta tell you something and you've gotta tell them that ''Don't judge anybody before you check yourself out'' and hey you're lucky it's YOUR fault because you can correct the situation. So go ahead CORRECT IT , stop sleeping with him and get married or engaged to him asap so you could prove to them that this relationship wasn't just for fun , we really love each other and we're not willing to break up because of you guys ! Just do what you gotta do and everything will turn the way you expected in the end.. and if it doesn't.. oh what the hell you'll get what you wanted anyway , you will actually be able to be with him without keeping secrets without hiding and then this will not be wrong anymore.you do the right thing before it gets worse !:D
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