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Why did my boss do that? Is it a sign of love?

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Question - (24 August 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi,im an accountant in a private company.my boss was four grades senior than me and he looked very appealing and warm all the time...its been 6 months I got my job there.

yesterday my boss sent me a message asking me to come to his cabin..it was around 6 p.m and only me and another senior were left at the office as we had more work to complete.

As soon as I went to his cabin he asked me to get seated and curtained up his cabin as none can watch us.i was shocked and confused.he came to me and sat on my lap...i felt very uncomfortable and asked whats going on and why im asked to come to his office in a rude tone.he stared at me for a moment and started to kiss me as an insane animal.i felt it very sweet and couldnt raise my voice against him...I closed my eyes as it was the sweetest thing after a hectic day.meantime I felt his hands around my breast and vergina and finally we ended up having sex on his table...we were both naked for hours so at around 9.30 we wore our clothes back and got ourselves to the car park.when I got into car he again removed my clothes and took my pant and bra to keep it with him as a memory and took some pics of my breast from his mobile while asking me not to wear any undergarments for office.when I asked why he said he wants to show me others at my best and all the curves,size of the breast and the rest of the sexual areas of women must be opened for men. he dropped me at my place after a huge lip kiss and gave me 100 bucks for giving him pleasure...whole night I was regreting and i didnt go for work today as I cant face him.just help me to know wether its love or lust?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011):

This isn't lust as much as it is sexual harassment.

By the way, you don't need to be talking to your boss, you need to be talking to a lawyer. You are being exploited, pure and simple.

But, your post says you are from USA, and your use of English is suggesting somewhere else, or you are an immigrant of recent import.

In the USA, this is harassment, and leads to the boss being fired, and the employee being paid a handsome settlement on the way out the door.

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A female reader, Lucky786 United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2011):

Lucky786 agony auntThe bit that scares me (apart from "vergina") is that he took pictures of your naked body and gave you 100 bucks! Sounds like he treated you like a hooker. Why did you let him do this to you? Sorry I'd be worried about him showing pictures of you around the office rather than whether he loves you or not. BTW I don't think he loves you.

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A female reader, amenthyst3356 United States +, writes (24 August 2011):

He took photos of you tO show others. You need to go t your HR department and file against him. You need to get legal help.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 August 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntWell looky what we have here...a troll with a "vergina".

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I wish it was not :( is it ok to go back for my work?

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A male reader, james088 South Africa +, writes (24 August 2011):

sorry to say but if it was love he wouldnt have just taken you to his cabin..and he definitely wouldnt be giving you 100 bucks at the end of the night...pure Lust!

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (24 August 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntYou went from 0 to 100 in a few hours... sorry to say, but that's lust.

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