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Family: Help and advice

I feel like I helped him mature for someone else to enjoy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1237 days ago

29 July 2021 (F) - I’m feeling very shocked and hurt even though I feel like I got over this past relationship. A man I dated swore he’d never have children. He’d be uncomfortable around them and all. I once got him to pose with my friends baby and his own mother ...

How do I explain how my boyfriend and I met?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1238 days ago

29 July 2021 (F) - How do I tell my fiance's parents how we met without revealing our secret? I met my fiance at a concert and had sex with him in the bathroom. I know it was risky and stupid but I was young and wild at the time. I thought it was just going to be...

I don't want to attend my daughter's church services

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1242 days ago

27 July 2021 (F) - My daughter is 24 years old and lives with me. She has severe depression as well as BPD and anxiety. Her condition has improved greatly, which I contributed to therapy. However, she told me it wasn't just therapy but religion. Apparently, she got in ...

Husband just isn't interested in sex, its been a year and me talking to him isn't working

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1140 days ago

27 July 2021 (F) - I need suggestions, advice, direction... Whatever you can give. Thank you in advance and apologies for any confusion. I promise to try my best to include everything of the topic. I am a married, stay at home mother of 3. I have found myself...

Messed up relationships have made me afraid to date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1243 days ago

27 July 2021 (F) - I know no one owes me anything in this life. I guess I made the mistake of expecting some level of loyalty? I was with this man for three years. I chose to help him during his health issues. Making a long story short, I had been struggling with my ...

My cousin and I gave our baby up for adoption and now she wants to meet us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

27 July 2021 (M) - When my cousin and was 16 years old, we were left home alone. We ended up having sex (not the first time) and she ended up getting pregnant. Our parents were angry (rightfully so). We ended up putting up our child, a daughter, up for adoption ...

Does anyone else have adult siblings that are just awkward and unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1244 days ago

23 July 2021 (F) - Does anyone else have adult siblings that are just awkward and unreasonable? Is it just me or do I have the worst, most inconsiderate family going?! My parents are both pensioners and could do with a bit of peace and quiet in their old age. Yet all ...

Does anyone know any good ways of handling the stress of grief?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1229 days ago

22 July 2021 (F) - Hi lovely Cupid’s, I’m wanting some advice on some awful events that have happened in my family the past month. My grandad sadly passed away recently and he was the absolute backbone to our family. I have siblings and due to our parents alcohol ...

My husband's lack of affection towards our 12 year old son concerns me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1247 days ago

21 July 2021 (F) - Hi guys, rights now I am just hurting for my eldest son. He just turned 12 and he has great resentment towards his father. My husband's father was never in his life until he was an adult. I believe it was when he turned 42 years old is when they ...

I don't like that my 16 year old daughter is dating and having sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1247 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - I’m struggling to deal with the fact that my daughter is having a sexual relationship, does anyone have any advice? She turned 16 in May and is legally allowed to but it doesn’t make me feel any better about it. I just feel like she’s rushing into ...

How can I be a stepmom if I can't be a wife first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1248 days ago

19 July 2021 (F) - I'm being thorough so that I can really just get to the bottom of resolving my stress with good advice. I've been with my current partner for 2 years, married for almost 1 year. His baby mom has caused a lot of drama since day one, though I've onl...

My cousin was diagnosed with advanced cancer. How do I support them in the upcoming weeks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1247 days ago

19 July 2021 (F) - Thank you in advance to all who help out here. My favourite cousin just received a diagnosis of advanced pancreatic cancer. We know it has spread to his other organs and that he will be assessed this week to see what his treatment plan is moving f...

Am I being paranoid by working towards permanently moving out as soon as possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1229 days ago

19 July 2021 (F) - I’m back home over summer due to COVID and that has triggered a bunch of memories i hadnt realized i’d forgotten and feel unsafe because of this. The majority of these are from when I was under the age of 10, my mother calls me crazy for still ...

Advice for saving my mom. Is he a priest or a cult leader?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1257 days ago

10 July 2021 (F) - Please exit out of this questions if you’re easily offended by religious topics, I’m going to be questioning some actions that revolve around that theme. How can I help my mom break free from the manipulation of people who only want her money? ...

Cheater FWb

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1258 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - Thank you for reading this.. I would like your opinions because I need to make a decsicion ….We have been friends w benefits for the last 3 years. I trusted him a lot we would see each other every weekend. It was pretty stable. Until last month ...

Troubled relationship with my sister. Am I wrong for feeling the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1261 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - My bf and I were friends online through social media for 6 months before meeting. I'm 34 and my sister is 39 and she said I don't know him and disapproved of us meeting then promptly stopped talking to me. The other day I deactivated my Instagram ...

The man I'm going to marry still wears his deceased wife's rings around his neck. How do I approach this subject?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1250 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - Ok so this may be a difficult one… I’m getting married next summer (provided there isn’t another sodding pandemic). My husband-to-be is a really wonderful man and I’m so lucky to have him. However… He still wears his and his first wife’s w...

Boyfriend's gift upset my father and I just want to fix things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1264 days ago

4 July 2021 (F) - For my birthday my b/ of 2 years paid for me to have my nipples peirced which I have longed for for some time now. I mentioned it to my sister when we met up and word of it must have gotten round to Dad. He like totally went ballistic and when I ...

How do I get my sister-in-law to back off asking about us having children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1262 days ago

3 July 2021 (M) - My brother and sister-in-law are pregnant. I am married. The problem is my sister-in-law keeps on asking me questions like "When are you and your wife are going to have kids?" and making comments such as "It would be nice if our kid will have so...