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Family: Help and advice

Pregnant not in love with my husband should I live like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

31 January 2020 (F) - I am 34 years old... I have a husband and daughter.. Another child is due 3 months from now... In all honesty I don't love my husband but I have decided to stick with him for the sake of my children. I had an affair for 2 years with someone else ...

How do I explain my poly relationship to my sister and others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1786 days ago

29 January 2020 (F) - I am in a poly relationship with two men and have been for nearly a year now. Everything is great although we keep it quite hush hush as we want to live our lives in peace. We all live together so we just say that one of the guys is our roommate. ...

My ex doesn't like it that I'm speaking with his cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1787 days ago

29 January 2020 (F) - So my ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and his cousin in I have been talking for a while in my ex (Trevion ) is kind of mad because he thinks its wrong . so what should I do?...

He cried more over his old dog dying than he did over us splitting up.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1789 days ago

27 January 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve just ended a 6 year relationship he preferred being at work and spending time with his dog than with me and his twin daughters who are 3 years old the problem is he is still living with me until he finds somewhere we split up 6 weeks ago I ...

My father feels I betrayed him when I was a child.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1785 days ago

27 January 2020 (F) - My father has been mad at me for years and will hardly even speak to me. He and mom were divorced when I was 7, my brother was 9, and my sister was 4. Mom is old school about certain things. When I was 10, I had stayed out past dark playing at a ...

My step father is abusive but wants my mother to take him back.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1790 days ago

22 January 2020 (F) - My dad passed away in 2009 by suicide. I was 13 at the time my sister was 2.. In 2010 my mum met this guy -let's call him Jay. They dated for awhile until my mum fell pregnant and the family forced them to get married -she had a miscarriage. D...

I had an affair and my parents want me to return to my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1793 days ago

22 January 2020 (F) - Im guilty of having affair with another man while im still married. My marriage was a wrong choice from the beginning. There is so much red flags that i ignored because of my low self esteem. Im told i cant have better relationship with other man ...

My boyfriend has a child already, but I'd like to have one of my own.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1797 days ago

18 January 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year now. He's almost 25 I'm 23. Hes already got one child a beautiful little girl whos 1 and a half. But lately I find myself wanting one of my own more and more. One who can call me momma. Her mother ...

Room mate blackmailing me and threatening to tell parents about my life if I don't go to church with her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1785 days ago

17 January 2020 (F) - I live in the dorms and at first I had two roommates, "Sarah" and "Patricia". Sarah was/is wonderful: she is messy/clutter but she keeps it to her area and she's gone much of the time. She's a fine arts major with an emphasis in sculpting. She basiy ...

I've not met this girl, but we talk and I'm smitten!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1800 days ago

16 January 2020 (M) - I want a lot of advice so I'm not sure this question will fall into a single category. I'm a 34 year old virgin - something that I'm not proud of but I guess that's life. I've been with girls and done stuff before and even without the sex I think ...

My boyfriend treats me terribly, maybe I deserve it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1800 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, hoping someone can offer some advice.. I'm a 31 year old woman and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's the same age. He's been living with me for six months, around the same time he lost his job. It wasn't something we ...

Is it possible to have healthy relationships with family with mental issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1798 days ago

16 January 2020 (F) - It has only been recently I’ve realized just how toxic my relationships are with my immediate family members. I’m having trouble knowing how to proceed with them now that I’ve had this realization. I’ve always been aware that our family is ...

Should my parents respect that I buy my own food and leave it alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1799 days ago

14 January 2020 (F) - I don't know if I'm being selfish or not or if my parents are being assholes but I am 22 years old and I buy my own food because I am a diabetic, and can't have any of the food they provide so I buy my own. My wage isn't that great, I just have ...

Was breaking up with him the right thing to do? How can I bite the bullet and just move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1702 days ago

12 January 2020 (F) - Dear Cupids, My long distance bf and I are breaking up and it sucks. We met in the summer and fell head over heels for each other. I returned home after the summer and we kept in touch, however at one point we had a fall out,and we stopped ta...

My wife will not take a bath.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1802 days ago

12 January 2020 (M) - wife will not take a bath it has been a month now,I have said in past, time to take a bath, she says leave me alone. I am tired of it, no sex cause of this, she smells leave the room and the sink stays, what to do other then leave....

I feel lost and miserable around my long term partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1804 days ago

11 January 2020 (M) - Ive been trying to make my relationship work for many years and Im tired. I lack the motivation and positive outlook for our future anymore. I am not depressed but my partner has been for many years, up and down, but the last 3-4 years half been ...

I'm losing myself in the process of raising my child and feel completely trapped

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

10 January 2020 (F) - I am stuck in a rut and don't even know where to begin. I am 36 years old and have an advanced degree in computer science and engineering. I've been married 4 years and have a 3 year old. I am a full time stay at home mom, not my preferen...

I'm a single mother unhappy at having to live with my parents.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

8 January 2020 (F) - I’m in desperate need of help, I’ve been with my baby daddy for 5 years. On and off he’s put me through a lot We have been through so many things. The reason why I keep getting back with him is because I wanted to give our 3 year old son the best ...

My foster child refuses to attend school.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1806 days ago

8 January 2020 (F) - I have a 10 year old foster child who refuses to got school. I work in the day and cannot leave the child home alone. The foster care agency I am with allows youths to refuse school at any age. I don’t want to give her back she’s a sweet c...

I feel like quitting on my famiily.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

7 January 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, I grew in a large family with 5 siblings. My mum had a career as a nurse and dad demanded she quit her work to look after is which she resented him for. Dad insisted he would provide for us but struggled to do so. But this was not the...

My family knows of my affair and my lover has distanced herself but I don't think I can return to my sexless marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

5 January 2020 (M) - I'm in my 40s. Been with my partner for 20 years and married for 17. We have a 15 year old daughter. My wife hasn't wanted a physical relationship with me for a long time. It's been around 10 years since we had sex. She has made comments in the ...

I'd like to have some fun with my sibling's friend, but don't know how to ask him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

5 January 2020 (F) - Please no judging, my sibling has a friend who I fancy the only problem I have is the age difference I am 42 he is 25. He has admitted in the past he liked me and this has gone on for the last 8 years. A few year back he actually sat discussing with ...

My husband acted like he didn't care, so I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

4 January 2020 (F) - I am hurting deeply. My husband of 6 years has a barber and beauty salon on the same compound of his mother's home. I work 12pm-9pm and my parents helps with our three children. My husband usually leaves his place of work at a reasonable time to go ...

My partner doesn't know how to be a family man. Should I end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1813 days ago

2 January 2020 (F) - Hi I’m just looking for some advice about my partner who doesn’t know how to be part of a family we have a 4 year old daughter and I am seriously thinking about ending the relationship soon he’s always been the same but I thought in time it would ...

How do I bring up with men I'm dating that I'm nearing the end of child bearing age and I want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1814 days ago

2 January 2020 (F) - I am bear the end of child bearing age. I was never married before. For a long time I attracted the wrong type of men and I worked hard on changing that. I’ve worked hard on myself even went back to school and really remade my life. Now when I’m...