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Archived questions from: October, 2019 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Is it normal to feel frustrated that my parents' expectations are getting in the way of my studies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1878 days ago

30 October 2019 (F) - Hi everyone! I’m gonna try to keep this as short as possible. I’m conflicted about how I should feel towards this situation and such. So here it is; A little backstory: I’m 20 years old and in my final year of university. It’s a stressful time n...

I took my boyfriend back and he hurt me physically

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1831 days ago

29 October 2019 (F) - So here I am. I took him back after dumping him for emotional abuse. This time he told me that things were going to change. A week later he was back to his same verbal abuse. This time tho I stood up to him. His five year old daughter was screaming ...

Why does my boyfriend lie about his sister?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1886 days ago

22 October 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he told me all the time that he's the only child of his mom, and I recently found out that he has a sister that he never told me about because until recently he was so upset and he had to tell me about this ...

I want to tell my boyfriend how my past has affected me as to who I am but I don't know where to start

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1888 days ago

19 October 2019 (F) - Hey there, I have been with my current partner now for coming on to 8 months, he treats me very well and I am very much in love with him He has opened up to me before about the way he feels and some personal things he has had to deal with before, ...

I'm a grown man and yet my mother controls my life. Help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1885 days ago

19 October 2019 (M) - My mother hit me, threatened me, and made me break up with my girlfriend after one day. Here's what happened: Throughout my entire life my mother has disapproved of any women that I choose to bring in it. I know now that she is a classic example ...

what do you do when your partner doesn’t make your children and partner a priority

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1890 days ago

17 October 2019 (F) - Hey everyone what do you do when your partner doesn’t make your children and partner a priority we split up for 3 month then we ended up getting back together because he promised things would change he has been working 7 days a week and he doesn’t ...

Why would my ex lie and tell me he had no family when he did?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1892 days ago

16 October 2019 (F) - I dated my ex for about a year, it was a year full of ups and downs, tiring for me mentally. We always had alot of problems, but i was naive enough to be manipulated by him because he's my first boyfriend. Basically, when i first met him, he told me ...

Should I ask my brother in law why he refuses to go on vacations with our family?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1891 days ago

16 October 2019 (F) - My brother-in-law, Sean, is extremely close to his nieces and nephew (his brother and I are the parents of his oldest niece and nephew). He takes them to all the fun places (the Aquarium, the zoo, Chuck E Cheese, different parks, the movie theater, ...

My future mother in law is irresponsible, especially with money.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1892 days ago

15 October 2019 (F) - I've been in a consistent relationship for 8 years (on and off for the first 2 years if you count them then 10 years in total). And engaged for 4 with our wedding in 2 years time. Over the past couple of years we've had nothing but issues with ...

His expectations have me confused and wondering about him! Any advice appreciated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1891 days ago

15 October 2019 (F) - Hello and thanks So my man has been confusing me a lot. We visit each other 3 times per year we in a LDR for approximately 3 years. I love him but I see many different shades to him. He’s impatient, demanding and has a temper. He also expects ...

Is my mother in law secretly racist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1892 days ago

14 October 2019 (F) - Ever since I dated my husband he would tell me all these crazy stories how his mom tried to hook him up with fat white chicks (preachers daughters) in the past. I’m not white and I think she hates me because I’m not. She’s one of those people who ...

Am I taking too great of a risk dating a twice divorced man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1892 days ago

12 October 2019 (F) - I'm dating a man who's been divorced twice. He is currently 40 and upon asking him, he said the first time around, it was because they both got married very young (I think at age 21) and they stayed together a very long time. He said they were ...

I'm having a tough time with my new, older boyfriend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1893 days ago

11 October 2019 (F) - Hi There is this guy at work and for some time now he has deffinately been trying to chat me up ,the thing is im on work experience. He is probably in his 40's.A few weeks ago we went out and it got more serious and eventually soon after we ended up...

My wife is making it difficult for me to cross dress and I feel like I am cheating on her..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1892 days ago

11 October 2019 (M) - Dear aunts, I've been attracted to crossdress since i was a child. I met a wonderful woman about 5 years ago. From the beginning i was clear about how i liked to dress from time to time and she fully accepted me. I'm not attracted to males at all. ...

My sister is never there for me yet always expects me to be there for her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1907 days ago

1 October 2019 (F) - The last few days I haven't felt well so I had to go to hospital last night. Just before my sister had called and said that I'm not my usual happy self and all I've done is complain about my health for two weeks. I corrected her and said it had been ...