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Archived questions from: February, 2019 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

How can I tell my family I want to end my marriage? They aren't going to support me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2119 days ago

28 February 2019 (F) - Hi.. ive been in really hard time right now. Ive made the worst decision in my life to marry my husband. We now have 5 months son and he is the only reason i stay. I think its the only reason too my husband and his parent still want me in their ...

I asked my mother not to say negative things about my father and now she isn't speaking to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2119 days ago

28 February 2019 (F) - My parents are divorced and I live with my mother and younger brother. The break-up between my parents was extremely sour. My father was never really the "#1 dad" type of figure because he had his issues with a drug addiction. My brother and I never ...

I'm pregnant and work part time. My husband wants me to get another job to pay his parents debts.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2122 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - My husband's parents owe a large amount of money to a family member which they can't pay. They have asked my husband to pay the money on their behalf, we are talking £500 per month for the next 10ish years. My husband works 9 to 5 and I work part ...

I'm 64 but still frightened of my dying mother.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2122 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - My elderly narcissistic mother is dying in hospital and after a violent abusive childhood, I hate having to see her. She's an embittered, difficult, hard to please woman and I feel very nervous in her company. I'm 64 now, yet still frightened of ...

How can I help this relationship survive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2125 days ago

24 February 2019 (F) - I am 40 F,3 years ago I met a 21F College student that was on a internship.(Asia)- I Never dated woman before. At the time I was in a leadership role within the college. She made passes and I resisted, because I was nervous, scared and becau...

I try very hard to acieve at university but my parents think its nothing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2125 days ago

23 February 2019 (F) - At the moment, I'm a little upset with what my parents have said. Not exactly sure how I should approach the situation. So it started off by discussing how I'm already in my 2nd year of university and that in a blink of an eye, I would be in my f...

I’m scared to talk to him about my desire to have children! Help?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

19 February 2019 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we're both very happy but there's one thing that I feel scared to talk to him about and it's the subject of children, he's had relationships in the past that have ended badly and this worries ...

Do you think he’s basically telling me to leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

18 February 2019 (F) - So last night my S/O and I got into an argument. We were at walmart leaving and our daughter stopped to whine about getting some gumballs so I wasn't paying attention to where I was walking and accidentally bumped into the entrance doors of the ...

My husband wants "space" to deal with his feelings of anger towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2106 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hello, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. My husabnd and I have been married for over 10 years. I love him dearly. Recently he has asked for "space." Claims his job and our marital issues are overwhelming him. Says he loves me but doesn't ...

I hate the way my partner talks about my children and I'd rather live alone than be trapped in a relationship with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am in a long-term relationship and love my partner but i feel very trapped. I have 2 children from a previous relationship that are teenagers and my partner doesnt have a strong relationship with them but they do all get along well most ...

I’m falling out of love, but can’t manage to walk away! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

17 February 2019 (M) - Hi everyone my name is James, i am currently in a 9 year relationship. For the last few years i felt like ive fallen out of love with my girlfriend. I am the only source of income in the relationship. Im very ambitious she is the complete opposite. ...

How can I deal with my anger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hello I am preparing myself emotionally and physically for life in my mid 30”s. My twenties were a series of parties - insecurities and putty fears with occasional breakdowns Throughout my self reflection I have noticed that I get angry very qu...

I don't like children at all but why am I thinking about the possibilty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2130 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - I’m 26 and have never ever ever wanted children in my whole life and the thought of giving birth and being pregnant makes me feel sick and squeamish. I don’t even find babies or children cute and I get very uncomfortable around them~ at Christmas I ...

My mom is being really overbearing regarding my wedding and it's taking a toll on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

15 February 2019 (F) - This isn't about my relationship with a partner. This is about my relationship with my mother who has been extra attached and possessive with me because my older sibling never became close to my mother and avoids her. Due to which I have always ...

I wish I could end all contact with my toxic mother!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2136 days ago

12 February 2019 (F) - I feel so much hatred towards my ‘mother’ but I can’t cut her off because she threatens to kill herself. To put things into perspective, I am in my mid thirties now with a teenage boy who luckily doesn’t know the half of it. He just knows I don’t ...

Our sex life shouldn’t be this dull!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2139 days ago

11 February 2019 (F) - Hi my partner and I have been together for 5 years our sex life has never been amazing it’s always just been boring even when I suggest something new he’s not interested we haven’t had sex now for 6 weeks so I knew he was up to something I looked at ...

Do I not deserve my life too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2138 days ago

10 February 2019 (F) - I'm a mother of 2 children ages 12 and 17. My ex husband and I divorced about 10 years ago. He was never really present in my children's lives until a few years ago when he realized I found a boyfriend and was afraid my boyfriend will take his ...

We live together and have 3 kids but he hasn't talked to me in 7 days because of trust issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2141 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - Tomorrow will be a week since we last talked. My bf of 3 years, father of my 3 children, stopped talking to me unexpectedly. I am unsure why, though I suspect it could be because of a message from an old hs friend. The message was completely ...

My partner babysits his grandchildren and leaves me to fend for myself, after I’ve worked 14 hour days!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

6 February 2019 (F) - I work full time and am up at 420am each day. I often work until 6pm. I have a two hour break in between where I can come home then return to work. My partner is retired and spends his time at home. I do most of the cleaning on the weekends, the ...

My mother-in-law is suddenly causing friction and problems in our marital life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

4 February 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been getting into a lot of disagreements/fights lately - mainly about petty things (money, household chores etc) but most have just built up over time. His mother has started to insert herself into this - and even when everyt...

I'm going out of my way to be good to his children as well as taking care of our family but all I'm reduced to is a mom and waitress.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

3 February 2019 (F) - Hi I love my husband more than anything. He is a great dad and works really hard. However I am trying to think of ways to save our marriage as he just doesn’t see things from my point of view and very rarely listens to me unless it’s in an argum...

I'm tempted to move out while he's away at the wedding

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

1 February 2019 (F) - I am having severe mixed feelings . My fiancé and I have been together 3 years (engaged for 9 months now) . Long story short things were extremely on and off for the first two years until he finally realized what he had and asked me to marry him . ...