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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

Is my girlfriend pushing her sister onto me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for the past year and a half and we've been living together for 5 months. To make a long story short, I love my girlfriend, but I also like her sister too. Before I dated my girlfriend, my girlfriend actually ...

Cousin is being abused and controlled! How do we help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5797 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - basically my cousin is dating this guy who is a control freak. my cousin is only 18 and he tells her what she can wear, who she can see,etc. also i think he is abusive to her. her mum is very worried and has recently gone through cervical cancer. ...

I feel as if I'm making all the sacrifices here...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months, we want to move in together. I'm willing to move away and take my 3 kids with me. My eldest doesn't want to go, she's 15, which would mean me going without her. This is a big sacrifice ...

She's the perfect girl, she's the girl of my dreams, she the one I want to spent the rest of my life with.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5797 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and my best friend is 18. I really love her and she really loves me. About 6 months ago we started dating.. secretly through. She has a boy friend, oh by the way she's straight too and I'm bi. It was hard cuz I'm not out and she has a ...

To me actions speak louder than words.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5797 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been engaged to a man since February 2008, since his recent divorce and all that helped I have seen a lot of chances in him for the worst, he tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me but we are so strapped for money right now its ...

I have alot of issues and just wondering if anyone has any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Hi, umm..this is a little tricky to start cos I've never used one of these before. I suppose I'll start with some background? When I was younger, my dad used to abuse me a lot. I mean both just being violent and sexually. It's made me feel rea...

My mind is telling me to move on but my heart is saying otherwise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have broken up for over a week now, we are school mates so I see her every day and it's really hard for me, I still love her a lot. The reason we broke up is because she is having a hard time giving the time because she isn't ...

I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I...

I feel trapped in my parents house with my kids and wish I could run away from it all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - i am 35 yrs old with 2 children, my daughter is 14, my son is only a toddler. unfortunately i was a single mom with my daughter and am now a single mom again with my son. my daughters father is now greatly involved in her life. my problem ...

Any advice would be appreciated about my tangled mess of a marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - My husband left me (and our 2 kids) a few months ago, before Thanksgiving. This was quite a surprise to me, he just up and did it! We have been having problems before that for about 1-1/2 years. A couple of weeks after he left, I lost my job because ...

Too embarrassed to face him again....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5798 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Me and my friend went to a restaurant with our mums and we both fancied the waiter and the other day we saw him in town and started to follow him around for ages and now we don't want to go in the restaurant again because it's too embarrassing but ...