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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

We were together 4 years. How can she replace me so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - Dear aunts, I need help bad, I'm sick of feeling hurt all the time, split from a good/bad relationship in november, not had contact or seen my ex at all but my friends and family seen her a few times and they come and tell me that they seen her and ...

My little sister is obsessed when it comes to guys, how can I make her see sense?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I need some help... it's not for me but I'm really worried for my younger sister, she seems to absolutely obsessed when it comes to guys... she's only 15 and she does everything in her power to so called "pull". I love her so much but am ...

If you love somebody would you be with them no matter what it takes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5795 days ago

8 January 2009 (M) - I've been married for 3 years now and no longer love my wife... I believe I am still with her only because I don't want to see her fall again before we were married... I rushed into this marriage only knowing her for 2 months and I work out-of-state ...

How I can come to terms with losing such a special person,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hi This is probably an unusual question to put on here seeing as it says dear cupid but here goes... When I was 9 I was adopted as I had been through all sorts of abuse. I have been to councelling about this but when I was adopted the lady ...

I'm on the verge of cheating! HELP! So confused!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice...I've in a serious relationship for 7 years, married 2 1/2 out of those 7. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship. The 1st year we started dating he took me home to meet his family (on west coast). As soon as I met his ...

My boyfriend has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend 6 months and he has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby. He had a brief fling with the mother last april and stupidly they were careless and ahd unprotected sex. The baby was born 3 ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend but I'm getting married to his best friend. What should I do???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - my mom picked out a guy for me to marry. she asked me if I loved someone.... I told her about my boyfriend but my boyfriend of 2 years says he's not ready to get married and wants to break up. I was devastated. My mom says I have to get married by ...

How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all. Two years ago my man asked if I would give him a 10 day excursion with his ex girlfriend because he said he loved us both (long story) and couldn’t decide which one to chose. I beg...

My boyfriend pushes me away when I'm the one who can help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives with his family (mother and sister) and everyone has to pay rent at their house. He recently had a birthday, took a week off, but requested vacation time. They didn't give him that, so he was unable to come up with his half of the ...

How to deal with my controlling mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5796 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - My mother is very controlling even though I am already married. She is a single mother and brought me up all by herself. She worked multiple jobs just to pay for my education. I feel like she really cares about me but her love goes too far. For ...

Parents won't let me get condoms or The Pill, but I want to have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - My boy friend and I want to have sex but my parents wont let me get condums or birth control pills. what do i say to her and what do i say to my bfriend?...