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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

How do I get rid of my reputation from the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hey Well this mey be kind of long but this is more something i need 2 get off my chest rather than a qustion. When i was younger i used to be quite popular in my class at school, but i have a older sister and she was always coming top in cla...

How do I break it to my family that my uncles b/f & I are in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - hi im 18 and i like to do things that normal 18 year olds do, i love anging out with my friends, going to college, and partying, theres just one difference, recently i have started a relationship with a 36 year old man, ive grown up with him as my ...

My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (?) - My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband. I would never do that and I already have a (hot) boyfriend. Ever since our other sister slept with her ex bf (which was 3 years ago and she didn't even let her come to her wedding) she been ...

In a rut....please give some advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi, This is my first time posting on a forum like this so please be gentle. I just can't seem to get any solid advice from my friends or family. For the longest time I did great with dating. I lots of friends that were women and I had lots of ...

My family is being cruel towards me and accusing me of lying, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - When I was eight years old I was raped in my bedroom by my Mother's then boyfriend while she was out. After that I was always afraid of men until my late teens. I am doing okay for myself now and have a very successful career. I finally decided to ...

I want to do what is best for me and my child not is what is best for my family or my ex. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for 5 years. We have a 5 year old daughter together, that he has only seen twice. He was horrible to me the entire 3 years we were together. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and moved back to my hometown. He ...

Have I ruined the best thing that I've ever had in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I don't really understand this situation. I started talking to this guy online. We use to talk 3 years ago but stopped when he went into the army. We started talking again after New year i;m 18 he's 24 and he was really into me, gave me his numb...

How do I go about solving a problem at home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I'm currently thirteen years old, and I want to control the amount of violence spurred at my house. My mother isn't the most caring mother, but I mind her just as well because she has taken care of me all of my life. She loves me and cares for me. ...

My boyfriend's brother and I do not get along, how can I cope, without leaving my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - What to do when your boyfriends brother hates you???? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and we've been really close friends for couple years before we started dating. We started officially dating summer of '07 and for the first year ...

How can I date his brother without hurting or losing my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - A friend of mine has told me that he has a crush on me. I don't feel the same way and I have told him this. However now I have a thing for his younger brother. Is there any possible way that I could try to date the brother without losing or hurting ...

I feel undesireable as a friend & a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5779 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I don't feel my friends or parents really udnerstand it, and I was hoping you would. I feel frustrated because I ahven't had a boyfriend for almost two years now. I am about to begin student teaching and I feel nervous and unsure of myself. I fe...

Could it be that he is afraid of his own feelings...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've recently lost the last of my family that I could talk to. I don't feel like there is anyone one this earth that really knows me except for an ex married boyfriend. We haven't seen each other in 20 years but I ended up calling him because I feel ...

Family fighting over what to name our dog!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - so this question may seem a bit wierd but my family keeps fighting and its really annoying, especially when this is supposed to be a positive experience. okay so im 14 and my family (me, my sis, my dad and my mom) are about to get a new black lab ...

Is it harder to move on in a situation like this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - If two people are very much in love, they were together for 6 - 7 years. He had to end the relationship because of some unresolved circumstances which involve family backgroud, etc. Even after the breakup and n/c, still have very strong feeling ...

Is it worth holding out and hope maybe he didn't mean it, and that he will find the strength to stand up to his mother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didnt have children of his own. we met online and we chatted for 8 wks sometimes we were up all night. he new ...