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Archived questions from: September, 2021 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Am I been over sensitive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1152 days ago

29 September 2021 (F) - Am I been over sensitive? My boyfriend of 5 month is constantly hanging up on me in mid flow of a conversation. We can be talking on the phone and he just says bye I’ve got to go and hangs up. It’s really annoying and I have ended up telling...

I find I can't seem to do anything right in her eyes and I have become frustrated with the relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1153 days ago

26 September 2021 (M) - Hi aunt's and uncle's So my gf and I have been together around 2 years. She finds things to complain about ALOT. For example I don't see her much , I don't text much , I don't call much in her opinion. In my opinion I find it complete...

Six years and no proposal. Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1072 days ago

25 September 2021 (F) - I started my relationship 6 years ago right away after breaking up with my ex. It was very toxic, he was 6 years older, abusive, controlling, a liar but he also became a replacement for my dad in the sense that he was there for me after every issue ...

Any advice on how I can totally let go during sex and show him how much he means to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1070 days ago

24 September 2021 (F) - Hello all, Just looking for some advice on my new relationship. I'm a 33 year old female and my partner is a 24 year old male. We've been together for around five months. I've never been in a relationship with a younger man before but he's ve...

Did I get Ghosted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1160 days ago

22 September 2021 (M) - Backstory: Woman (42) approached me at a club and I got her # that night. Since, we've exchanged text messages and I've noticed she tends to take a while to respond unless I catch her undivided attention. She has already agreed on a date, but we ...

Should I change my plans for her son's 18th birthday?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1157 days ago

21 September 2021 (M) - The question I'm needing help with is this: is it okay to NOT go to my girlfriend's son's 18th birthday celebration? Here is the background: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 10 years and, therefore, have been a part...

How do I get him to show more initiative and text me/ask me out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1161 days ago

20 September 2021 (F) - I went out with a guy I met online today, and I think we both had fun. He seems like a shy/awkward/nerdy guy, so I ended up planning our date. We were together for about 3.5 hours. We split everything. He's definately an improvement to a...

Our breakups cause me extreme anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1161 days ago

19 September 2021 (M) - My girlfriend of many years and I can’t ever seem to resolve any conflicts very well. This means that almost any time we argue she gets VERY angry and very mean and seemingly wants to punish me. Most of the time an argument ends with her saying ...

My boyfriend seems to be addicted to online games, but won't admit to it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

15 September 2021 (F) - Hey all. Thanks in advance for your help. My boyfriend seems to play a lot of online games. I think they are useless and a waste of time. He plays one particular online game every single day and sometimes for hours. I would rather get back to real ...

Are online "dalliances" with other people meaningless? Or are they unacceptable in committed relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

15 September 2021 (F) - Do you think that if your partner has an online account (Snapchat) you did not know about (but found out about) where he "harmlessly" chats/flirts with women (often younger!!) whenever he feels like it is cheating? He never meets them in person. It ...

I'm exhausted and ready to break up with my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

14 September 2021 (F) - I am 27 years old and had 3 long time boyfriends. This guy is 4th. I am not a dater..actualy hate this process.I tried but then i discovered that most of my dated are in for sex ..i guess i dont have enough interest in just that. I came from ver...

What's a fair way to split rent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1172 days ago

10 September 2021 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and living in the USA. I currently make 54K. My boyfriend was making minimum wage but just graduated university and accepted a job offer for a nearly identical salary. I’m currently living...

It bothers me that my bf likes other women's pics on social media

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1139 days ago

8 September 2021 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles So my bf and myself have been together about 2 years. He is very active on social media. Always liking womens pics. For some reason it does bother me I think because he has cheated in the past and I've asked him nicely...

He drinks too much!So?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1177 days ago

4 September 2021 (F) - My bf drinks too much anytime i talk to him bout it he just whines.he usally come back late,and am worried.should i be? ...

Has anyone struggled with life for so long and actually managed to turn your life around for the better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1180 days ago

2 September 2021 (M) - Has anyone been able to gain there confidence at such a later part in your life and been truly happy? I have been in a rut and stuck in life for years now. I didn't realise how much hope and spark I'd lost in life.. I go to work come back waste ...

I'm wondering if what he says is true or is he just using excuses not to see me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1177 days ago

2 September 2021 (F) - I wrote on here asking for advice on dating a man with children and where do I fit in at. I’m really starting to think I need to walk away from this situation. I met him for a few hours and he told me his first ex has being diagnosed with c...

I like this girl but I'm not ready for a serious commitment of any sort.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1181 days ago

1 September 2021 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this girl for a 2ish years. When we first met we were both pretty adamant that marriage was off the table. I told her I didn't see myself marrying and we continued to see each other. She's slowly made passes about mov...

I'm not interested in being his rebound

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1177 days ago

1 September 2021 (F) - Hi I used to date a guy briefly years ago and he had alot of baggage I wasn't ready to deal with so I ended things quickly. Recently, he contacted me we have been texting again. He told me he had big feelings for me before and was hurt I en...