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writes:My bf drinks too much anytime i talk to him bout it he just whines.he usally come back late,and am worried.should i be? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (7 September 2021):
 Assuming that you are older that the age bracket that you chose to put down i would suggest that he obtains some help regarding his excessive drinking.
If he unwilling to do this them maybe its time to end this relationship and call it a day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2021): Talk to your parents about it. If he's old enough to be out late and drinking; he's got no business having a 13-15 year-old girlfriend. In the U.S. you're underaged and illegal.
If your age is real, he's got a bigger problem than drinking!
If you're at least 17, and you've got a boyfriend with a drinking problem; you're dating unsupervised, and making bad choices. Either your parents don't know about him; or they'd be the first to tell you to get rid of him!
If you're 18, or older, then you know better than to have a drunk for a boyfriend. You don't keep guys like him, you dump them.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (4 September 2021):
 If you are really 13-15, then your boyfriend is either drinking illegally or considerably older than you. When you say he comes back, I assume you mean to the home you share, so presumably you are not really under 15.
Age aside (I am going to assume you have put the wrong age), the fact that he prefers to drink (presumably with his friends?) to spending time with you should be a red flag. This is not going to change unless HE decides he wants to change it. If you don't like it, dump him and find yourself a boyfriend who prioritizes you, not the demon booze.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 September 2021):
 You are 13-15?
Or did you write the wrong age group here?
I'm going to presume you are NOT 13-15 but older. If your BF drinks too much, you can make a CHOICE to stay with him or leave.
You can't control or "make him" do what you want.
While his drinking too much is not good, he doesn't seem to want to change. So YOU have to decide if you want to be with him or not.
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