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Archived questions from: October, 2021 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Feelings that I don't know how to address

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1153 days ago

30 October 2021 (F) - Hi all thanks for taken a moment to read this. I just need some help with a situation I have found myself in. I have a boyfriend we have been together 3 years, we are okay together sometimes. I feel somewhat unloved and not cared for as I should b...

Is a year and and 4 months enough time for a proposal? Am I being that crazy girlfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1151 days ago

28 October 2021 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since summer 2020. We’ve been in a happy committed relationship. He just turned 27 this week and I am turning 28 in December. Since then we have made huge strides. We live together, own a dog together, pay ...

The attraction I have to this man has caught me off guard

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1155 days ago

28 October 2021 (F) - A new guy started at my work and we've known each other for a short while now, when we first met we got on like most strangers who meet for the first time. Then one day we were both were working late and got into conversation, that we could of just ...

I'm not sure where I stand with this guy, both sexually and otherwise

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1155 days ago

28 October 2021 (F) - I've been seeing a guy 22, I'm 33. We clicked instantly with the same interests it made it easy to talk and get into hours of conversation at a time. He said he wanted to go out and we did and had a great time. We talked for hours and it felt very ...

Nice but shy colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1145 days ago

27 October 2021 (M) - Hello, How do I initiate talking with a nice woman who seems very shy? We are colleagues but don't work together and we are quite mature. I know she is divorced and a mother of grown up sons but she doesn't seem to socialise much at the workplace...

I'm sick and tired of his treatment towards me. It's always about his friends and weed.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1150 days ago

25 October 2021 (F) - Hi and thanks alot So my bf can be very abusive. Verbally abusive. Resorts to name calling at the slightest things. He wasn't like that in the beginning at first he was calm and sweet then he changed alot. Maybe the true colors appeared. ...

We can't agree on when to have children. She wants to wait

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1160 days ago

24 October 2021 (F) - Me and my fiancee have had serious arguments recently over when to have kids. We've been together for 6 years, met in Vancouver. American expats in Canada, been here a few years now. Not got dual citizenship yet, just permanent residency. Lived...

47 year old man never been kissed, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1142 days ago

18 October 2021 (M) - Hello. I am sure you will not believe my story, but I am telling the truth. I am a large 47 year man who has sadly for me never experienced what it is to have a girlfriend or to fall in love or even just walk with a woman holding their hand. I have ...

My boyfriend hired a maid to clean his house now can't afford her and wants me to pay

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1165 days ago

17 October 2021 (F) - Hello and thanks My bf and I have been together for a year. He hired a maid to clean his house and now can't afford to pay her. He asked if I could help. I don't even have a maid. I'm surprised, hes healthy and quite capable of cleaning his ...

Language barrier, temper, or both?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

15 October 2021 (F) - Language barrier, temper, or both? I have been dating a man for a couple of years. I speak english , and english isn't his first language. I find he interrupts what I say completely differently than what I mean. Example: today we were texting ...

He told me I was fatter than he expected years later

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1169 days ago

14 October 2021 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for 3 years now (me: 23f, him 24m). Our first date is a precious memory for me. We were talking online for weeks before we met because he was out of town at the time, and met up at a small restaurant. He was so ...

I just found out my boyfriend use to be a sissy in high-school

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

13 October 2021 (F) - I recently discovered that my bf of 1.6 years was a huge sissy back in high school like super feminine. I found from some of his old female friends when I attended his high school reunion with him a few nights ago. They even said he never had a ...

I haven't dated in awhile and am not sure if I'm picking up the right signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

11 October 2021 (F) - I've been happily single for a long while by choice but I recently met someone and well...as I've been out of the dating game for a while, I need to know if this guy actually likes me? I first met him a few months ago. He's my landlord's contr...

He shared my intimate photo with somebody else. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

10 October 2021 (F) - I sent an intimate photo to the guy I’m dating. You can’t see my face and there’s no full nudity, but it’s implied. Anyway, he was at a bar the other night and he told me this woman kept hitting on him. She wouldn’t leave him alone even thoug...

I don’t know if I should stay with him or not, as the more I’m getting to know him, it sounds like everything is all his way or the highway.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1172 days ago

9 October 2021 (F) - I’ve been dating a man who’s older than me. He was all full on with me at the start, I think I was being love bombed looking back on it and he was seeing a future with me. The first couple of months was difficult for us to see each other as h...

Is my daughter wasting her time with a man 17 years older 3 kids never married

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1178 days ago

5 October 2021 (F) - My daughter is nearly 30 and is seeing a man who is 17 years older. He’s never been married but has 3 kids to two different women. He’s told her he doesn’t want anymore kids or get married. There has been a lot of ups and downs between them (more ...

Am I wrong for feeling like its weird that he is secretive about how happy we are?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1179 days ago

4 October 2021 (F) - My partner of 2 year's family has hesitated to get to know me because his ex of 5 years hasnt gotten over him. She still comes around and they seem really loyal to that relationship, despite the part where shes constantly treating my partner like ...

My boyfriend's ex wife can't accept that he is gay and is causing trouble wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1179 days ago

4 October 2021 (M) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. Our relationship's great, and the passion's still there, even with the mundane things. However, his ex-wife Chloe's the big problem right now, she's kept intruding into our life, and it's difficult...

My girlfriend in the hospital were the nurses talking to her in a sexual manner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1179 days ago

4 October 2021 (M) - Do u think my gf saying that in front of me was meaning it w a sexual undertone. She been in hospital for a week from the covid vaccine bs that gave her blood infection and she about died. But she almost done recovering. Or am I being paranoid...

My boyfriends peeps

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1179 days ago

4 October 2021 (F) - my boyfriend of 2 years has a close group of friends and live in a small town and do alot together. when we met they were all nice to me. there are about 12 in this group and five women of the twelve. one woman in particular they have no int...

relationships take two and he is doing absolutely nothing to help me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1181 days ago

3 October 2021 (F) - Hi Cupid’s, Wanting some relationship advice about me and my partner. We have a loving relationship and respectful of each other. We have been together 3 years now and it’s going good. My friends always ask me if he is ‘the one’ but I’m unsure. ...

I'm just ticked off that he ghosted me then texted me like nothings changed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1179 days ago

3 October 2021 (F) - I met a guy on a dating app and we've been out on 2 dates. I was beginning to like him, then he disappeared after the 2nd date. I texted him last Sunday telling him I had fun and we should go out again. He then suggested we should go see a movie, to ...

Girlfriend preoccupied with hobbies neglecting other things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1178 days ago

3 October 2021 (M) - I just moved in with my girfriend and this is what i observe: she spends most hers days gardening or doing craft then doing nessesary everyday things like making dinner or cleaning. This is the situation: I moved into her house, i pay her ...

My girlfriend left me for another guy. But am still in love with her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1094 days ago

2 October 2021 (M) - My girlfriend left me for another guy. But am still in love with her. What do i have to do....