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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How can I tighten up my vaginal muscles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - I did sex before two months . Now I am in a another relationship. And we will get married in 6 months . But I don't want to feel embarrassed when we're having sex. So I want to tighten my vagina when I sex with him . P...

Decided to take a break from each other. Will he think it's a permanent thing by April?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Okay, firstly we've only been broken up a few hours so this question is more of a future problem solving one. We broke up because life schedules mean we never see each other. I literally have work 7 days a week and it clashes with his days off so ...

Is there any way to show people that first impressions of a person were wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

31 October 2015 (M) - I recently started dating this girl, she's 20 and has a 4year old son. I ended up making a horrible first and second impression on her parents and I despartely need to redeem myself. Three weeks ago her parents were away when I got a call while I ...

I'm dating my married step uncle...help? I need advice on what to do, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Ok hi. Completely new at this. So to get right to the point. I'm dating my step uncle so (my mothers step mums son) so not. Definitely not blood related. He is married (not separated) tho like typical situations (is going to get a device an...

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

Why is he, all of a sudden, interested in trying? Is sex, the first time, sometimes not successful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - My bf never used to be very much into having sex. We've been dating for over 3 yrs now. We are both college graduates. I'm working before going to med school. He's getting ready for law school. One of the biggest problems in our relationship was...

Does he just tolerate my shape due to the emotional connection? Is it wrong of me to want a man who loves all of me including my body shape?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - I've been in a Relationship with a man for a year and a half and very happy . The time we have spent together has been wonderful . However recently he has had an issue with my weight and is treating me differently because of it. He seems extremely ...

The man I am dating refuses to introduce me to his family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

30 October 2015 (F) - Thanks for ur replies so far concerning my previous question.i am a 25yrs and the guy is 36yrs we've been dating over a year now becos when he ask my hand in marriage as at last year i refused becos i dont know much about him before i excepted him ...

Slam bam thank you ma'am is all I get!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for around 5 months, we've been great, had various issues which soon got resolved. When we first got together we had sex constantly, he would always perform oral sex and we'd have an amazing time, but over ...

Should I go out on the date with second guy? I like them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi I could use some help please, So basically I recently moved schools in the last 2 weeks and meet this guy and we've been talking he's totally in love with me and I dunno how I feel back I want to go on a date and meet up with him before I think ...

I have a very big problem with men who have a history of one-night stands. Am I giving myself no hope of finding love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I’m 23 and I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I hope it’s just a matter of not meeting the right person, but I’m beginning to worry that I’ll never meet anyone. Because of my family and religion, I have very strong values. I like the...

Should I stick by Him? Despite the rumours about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Basically, there's a guy who I started recently seeing, what it is , is that we live in a small town so everyone knows each other business. Recently some rumours about him have come out such as he's been married a few times, controlling person a...

No contact since our breakup. Could we date again? And what does kissing on the ear mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi I had a boyfriend who kissed my ear the first time he kissed me. He was so concentrated on my right ear with his tongue participating mostly. We broke up after i found out he had a girlfriend somewhere else and was dating us both. Though he doe...

He wants our son to meet his new girlfriend. But he's imposing restrictions on our son's contact with my boyfriend. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, ive got a question what would you do in this situation. I was with my ex for five years, we had a child together. We got back together but in this time I didn't realise he had met someone else. He had moved away and would...

Do I tell my LDR what happened (a date and a kiss) during the period we were apart? Or not mention it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts. In a LDR of nearly a year Had some difficulties, especially of late, leading to us splitting up a few weeks back. I went on a couple of dates with an old friend, ended up kissing him. Spent the evening thinking of my man. Have told t...

My ex and I are back in touch. Will getting back with my ex work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, So, I split with my ex 7 years ago. We'd been together 6 years, not living together or anything but still spending a lot of time together whilst raising my son from a previous marriage as well as his two young sons. We spli...

I feel like my Bf is pulling away. He rarely instigates sex now. Am I being needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. We've been together just over three years. Had our ups and downs. Just the past few weeks he doesn't really respond to texts and home calls. I mean we live together but he works until after 9 pm then ...

Why now? Was it an excuse? Will we resume? He has said we need to take a break to focus on our children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I am in love with a man, who loves me. I have 3 kids and didn't want him to get involved too closely with them so I made sure we started slowly. He has 2 children as well but from different partners (A little niggle). My question is he has sai...

Why is this happening now? Two years later? Now I'm plagued with dreams that remind me of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - hi everyone. Some advice would be great. Cut a long story short my partner had an affair nearly two years ago now. We had been together for four years at the time, we both weren't happy and then I found out the reason why- he had had a six week a...

My Bf is going on a trip, with his sister, and without me. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and 5 months ago, him and I started planning a trip together. He would come down every weekend, we would look at various places to go, kept checking prices and overall, talked about it all the ...

Both teachers have a crush on me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

28 October 2015 (M) - First I want to say this is an adult's language school, so everybody is over 18. As part of my university degree I'm studying abroad at a Spanish language school. Somehow both teachers there have a crush on me, strong enough for all the students...

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be ...

Will I ever love a man again as much as I loved my first Bf?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I just broke up w/my 1st "real" boyfriend for whom I wanted to give the world to, I eventually found out he didn't care for me that much (he told me how much he loved, but I could feel in my gut he wasn't that in love), so knowing this would tear me ...

Should I arrive as soon as the party starts? Or should I arrive at a time that is normal for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and his friends are throwing a very nice party in a couple of weeks. My boyfriend and I will be arriving separately. He with his friends and me with mine. The party starts at 10. Should I be there as soon as it starts like a...

I'm in a new relationship and want to know if I should tell him about sleeping with my ex when we were just starting to date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I am in a new relationship which is going so well and I am extremely happy, when I first dated this man I was still in contact with my ex on a civil level or as friends as most would say, I went on a few dates with this new man and didn't ...

Do I continue on and hope he will grow up? Or is it time to end our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - I feel stupid even writing this. I have been with my partner for over 5 and half years. I have a child from a previous relationship. My child is 10. I do love my partner but he is so immature. He is 32, i am 31. I feel like i behave more like...

How do you cope with the social pressure to get a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

27 October 2015 (M) - I'm 27 and haven't been in a relationship. Although, I'm average looking enough that I probably could be if I wanted to. But more and more people around will tell me to get into a relationship: my parents, my siblings, and my friends. I don't re...

Should I say something to this guy's girlfriend about what transpired between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - So, a few years ago I was at a friend's birthday party. I was several weeks post-break up and very narrowly missed possible rape that evening. I was very shaken up. There was a friend who started comforting me - we talked through the night before ...

I am comparing every man to my ex. How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - About seven months ago, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me completely out of the blue. There were no warning signs whatsoever so it really rocked me. We had been living together for two years and were about to move into a new house and he ...

I'm going away on a "dirty weekend", and don't know what to do !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - hi, Im going on a "dirty" weekend away with my bf and we haven't been away in a long time. I want to make it really special and sexy in the bedroom but havent really ever done something like that before... I have bought some sexy suspenders...

I'm 19, he's 31. Do we have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - helo. I am inlove with a 31 year old man (im 19). He saw me passing by one time last year december and gave me his number the same day and i gave him mine. He called me later the same day unfortunately i was with my boyfriend by that time. He told ...

The worst sex I've ever had! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - Help!!! I'm stuck in a rut with my sex life. I became sexually active at fifteen and have had a few sexual partners since. I've now been with my current boyfriend for 13 months and we have the worst sex life I've ever had. I've tried everything to ...

I do not want to be hurt again by my first love. Any words of wisdom, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - I have not long met up again with my first love. It was passionate buthe ended up really hurting me. We separated for over 20yrs and I have a grown family. We linked again a few months ago and the chemistry was still there. A few months later be...

Which issue could derail us? Our age difference? His drinking? Or his use of drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Please help me. I really do not know what to do here and I am desperate for advice. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs now. We live together. My bf is now 27. Before we got together we discussed at great length the age difference an...

Is feeling good about yourself is a sin? Or am I expecting too much from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I have on and off relationship with my current be of 4 years. Yesterday I changed in profile picture , which is my really fav picture and I like how I look in the picture. Earlier I used to have low self esteem issues, never really lik...

My lady friend couldn't accept that my wife was in my life and ended things. I miss her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 October 2015 (M) - Hi People I am married but separated and live alone. My wife and I continue to be friends and I spend a lot of time with her and our 2 girls. Sometimes we share vacations. We go back a long way and I cannot imagine not having her in my life. 6 y...

I can't forget about him but is he worth waiting for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Dear cupid In March of this year I received a message from this young irish man saying ''i love your looks, i love your smile and I love your style'' we built up from that to talking about each others work lives, home life and personality, he ...

My guy says he'll give me oral sex if I shave but I don't want to do that

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Been with my partner for just over a year, my only problem is...I've gone down on him many times, but he has never gone down on me. He told me he would touch me "down there" more often even possibly go down on me if I.....Shaved. ...

How do I tell the girl I'm dating that my female room mate is actually my ex wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 October 2015 (M) - Hi, well I met this girl two times, we are going out again, , I wonder when should I let her know, I have a woman roommate, but the thing, about it is, my room mate is my ex wife, we have teenager, I have custody, we are just friends, you see she is ...

How do I get this guy to listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - More guy troubles/ rant! Let's call his guy M. M and I have been seeing each other for a while now. For a while now, I've been feeling like I'm nothing but a booty call to him. I just want to hang out with him and everytime he initiates sex. Don't ...

Would my ex treat me as he did when we were younger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - I met up with my first love after he came to me in a dream. I sent him a message via Facebook and said it was nice to see him even if it was just in my dream. He demanded to link with me after over 15 years of not seeing and took me out for ...

Do I cut my losses and move on? He keep coming up with excuses why we can't meet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - why do guys do things the way they do , ive been chatting with a guy online for a while and we reached the point to delete our profiles even tho we hadnt met by that stage , weve arranged a few times a date but he keeps coming up with the most ...

How to date an awkward person. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - Hi, So I'm talking to a guy who is very sweet and we both really like each other. However, he's very awkward. Even with his close friends he's still sort of reserved. He laughs and talks with them but there's still shyness with friends he's ...

We bicker so much. Breaking up is proving hard to do. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

22 October 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. About 3 months ago we decided to move out together, however we moved to a different town, not too far from home, maybe about 2 hours. At first I was happy and enjoying the new change, but within ...

My boyfriend's stomach is coming between us

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - I met a guy of 40 on a dating site we have been dating 6 months. He is about to complete his divorce and has two children under 8. His wife left him two years ago and things are amicable. If I have a future will I be expected to share my house w...

Can I get this girl to like me more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

22 October 2015 (M) - I met a girl on an online dating site a few months back. We had a great emotional and intellectual connection and got along great. However, we made the mistake of not meeting quickly enough. So while our connection deepened significantly, we still ...

Is it okay to date my step dad's godson?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - My mother married a man that she has known for years and he is now my step father.. My step father has a God son and I am attracted to this God son. We have known each other almost 8 months now.. I found out I was pregnant before knowing him ...

How do you get a shy boy to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3356 days ago

Was I nothing more than a fling to him? How long do I hold out hope that he'll contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - Where did I go wrong? I'm quite a mess at the moment. I just returned from a visit to Europe. Long story short, I was studying abroad for college, and we travelled by coach (bus) to all countries. We always had the same bus, and the same bus dri...

Am I being played? I've me a wonderful girl, but she's unhappily married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - I met a wonderful girl at the end of june, and i have fallen so in love with her. and she said she feels the same way too. But she is married and unhappy. so now nearly 4 months in to this crazyness im feeling like im being played. we meet u...