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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I stay with him and give him an opportunity to prove himself?

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20 February 2012 (F) - Alright so this is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. When we met, he was having problems with his girlfriend and I was having problems with my boyfriend. We both dumped them and started going out. Everything was g...

B/f gave me his password to facebook but I seen messages I didn't like should I talk to him about them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month now, and he gave me his facebook password yesterday when i was at his place. I looked at some of his private messages when i was with him at his place, but i looked at some more when i got home too,and ...

Why is he playing with me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Why is this guy playing with me like this? is this some sort of a sick game? So there's this guy that I like. He'd stare all at me all the time. I gave him my number and he'd ring me and text me. But whenever we made plans to go on a date he'...

We dated, he dropped out of sight and then told me he fell for me too hard?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I dated this man for 3 months. Then all of a sudden he just stopped calling. When I finally did talk to him, he told me that he needed a break. So for 2 weeks I didn't hear from him. Out of the blue last Friday, he called and I wasn't able to ...

My parents are starting to ask about my boyfriend's family, what do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I have a problem regarding my parents and my boyfriend's background. Long story short, my boyfriend is adopted and his real parents are in a different country with the rest of his siblings. His foster mom is currently fighting a deathly cancer. ...

I like him but I'm wondering if he's gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice, I've met a really lovely guy who is in tbe military. But I'm concerned he might be gay. He can be camp at times, loves cleaning and ironing it took 7 dates for him to kiss me which I instigated and also said his ma...

What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...

Were these the actions of a platonic friend, or does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - I am 18 and have a crush on a girl a year younger than me at work. We are both part timers at a restaurant, and our boss owns the bar next door. There was a party in the bar one night and being a dishwasher in the restaurant, I was not needed, but ...

I lost him once before and I don't want to lose him again, but I'm not ready to lose my virginity either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I recently started seeing this guy, only it didnt happen the way it normally would, I already knew him because we dated over a year ago. Then I bumped into him last week and he said we should go for a drink sometime and I mentioned that I was having ...

I feel taken for granted, trapped in my flat and frankly bored.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had an up and down relationship but great sex and alot of laughs for the first few years, he is probably the funniest person I know. Having been together for 10 years (bar a year and a half apart) I have always felt ...

Recent rocky relationship and now we have an ex back in the picture!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 6 yrs, but for the past 12 mths it has been rocky, I have asked him to leave but he won't, he thinks.that we will get back to how we. were but I know we won't. I went out at the wkd and saw an ex, he told me ...

My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took m...

So with the new date, do I tell him about my ex and what about the conditions he puts on our dating? And why does my ex want to deter me from dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Topic 1: My Ex Recently I broke up with a b/f of over a year, we didnt have any sort of falling out, we simply cant/couldnt be together because of issues outside of our control. Since we both admitted that we didnt think we could wait like 10 yea...

I'm getting tired of defending myself against boyfriend's thoughts that I might cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I began dating exclusively from the day we met. He calls frequently and tells me he can't live without me and if anything is a bit over-possesive. He always makes comments that imply that I'm ready to have an affair with the ...

He was abusive and I need to move on. Tips please on how to move on and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: no mention of charges laid against the OP so I am not calling this a crime. Instead I belive the Op was the victim from reading this account. I met this man in 1987... We have been in and out of love, or what I thought was love now I'm...

I love him madly. But he's starting to behave in ways that suggest I will get hurt. What are my options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: out of compassion text speak was corrected. However the level of Text Speak orginally was more than is usual. Please next time - less Text speak? Hi everyone. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months now and I have known hi...

I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would t...

Hot then cold then... Lukewarm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - I'm slowly losing my mind trying to figure out if I should start moving on or if I still have a reason to be hopeful, because in the span of three weeks, this situation I stumbled into has gone from promising to frozen. So there's this girl on my ...

The new guy has made me question the last 7 years of my life. What do I do about my B/f now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - How can I leave? This is such a long story so I'll try give you short version. I want to start off by saying he is a good guy and with the right girl he could make her happy. We've been together for 14 years. I got pregnet with our...

Am I just not good at giving hand jobs, or what? Why does my B/f never ejaculate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I've given my boyfriend quite a few handjobs when were kissing. He always seems to enjoy it quite a bit, especially once i get going and he's breathing hard. However, he never ejaculates. Once his breathing gets really heavy, he generally slows down ...

Am I being unfair or not? He wants all the attention but calls me selfish.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi Aunt's.I'd like a little help here please. I have been seeing someone for about 5 years.we enjoy sex together but i have a problem with his selfishness in showing affection to me. He seems to think i should be doting on him all the time,while h...

He is so nice to me. But My friends talk him down. What do others make of this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i was broke up for 3 weeks i begged him to get back with me he said no he didn't want a relationship. Then i stopped talking to him ignored him and then he was the one who was wanting to be together again he said he loved me so much...

How can I gain the trust and show her I care? She's been hurt in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - There's this girl I really like. I mean I'm crazy about her :) But she's been hurt badly in the past and so isn't willing to chance anything :( I want to help her understand that I'm not like other guys. I want her to believe this because i...

Why does she still put me down? I just can't seem to do anything right in this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - i am 38 and i am in A relationship with A woman that just can't take my advice without thinking that I am trying to change her or be controlling. I am A decent man that has had issues with addiction in my past and have gone through great lengths to ...