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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I feel my girlfriend is cheating on me... With her ex husband's new wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

29 December 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her "S", for about 11 months. She has a 4 year old son, I have no children. She's divorced, and it was rough. He was an abusive, meth-head a-hole. I've never been married, but I've been cheated on ...

I can't seem to sort my feelings out for this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - there is this guy i know and i don't know if i'm interested in him, he's 2 years older than me and he seems to have a lot of friends ( girls included). sometimes i have feelings when i see him hanging out with other girls but sometimes i feel ...

How do I fix a bad first impression and make him look at me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - Afew months ago there was a personal trainer who kept looking at me and watching me from afar; I'd look over to him and he never smiled nor turned away. It was quite intimidating so I looked away and didn't pay too much attention. His actually ...

Is she interested? How can I tell and how do I tell her without sounding too full on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

26 December 2017 (M) - Hi, I hope some of you can offer me some good advice. A colleague of mine left a few months ago and we got on like a house on fire, so I was a little upset when she left for another job. I also was really attracted to her, but not wanting to mix b...

Is it right for me to ask her out despite my financial situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

25 December 2017 (M) - I know a girl and we're at that stage between a friendship and something romantic. Lots of flirting and caring and checking in on each other regularly but I'm between jobs at the moment and I have no idea about the immediate future and when I'll be ...

Are my best friends feelings starting to match mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

24 December 2017 (M) - Ok, here we go... I'm needing thoughts to help me get my head around this. My best friend, is straight, forever "girl this and girls that" - but recently something has changed between us and it's led to him hugging me more (not that I'm complai...

Playing truth or dare .... I didnt like his answer.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been talking to this boy he’s in the same year as me but in a different school and tonight we were playing truth or dare I asked him what the most he had done with a girl is and he said he wants to take it back but he’s fingered someone.Ohhh ...

What's the best way for me to appraoch this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

21 December 2017 (M) - Hi I'm having a problem with getting any sort of connection with a girl I have become friends with. We met at college and have been in group tasks etc and we got on really well I have real feelings towards her but have tried to talk to her via ...

I'm sinking into depression over this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

21 December 2017 (M) - Okay, just to start off my life has been going completely downhill. It's a long story and has been going on for about 3 years now, but here goes: There's a girl. She's perfect for me; she's pretty much the definition of what I want in a girl. ...

The men I’m attracted to never like me back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

20 December 2017 (F) - Ok so my problem is quite straightforward - the men I’m attracted to never like me back! I don’t know maybe my standards are too high, but how do I change that? I’ve tried all of the usual advice, including dating different types of men; focusing...

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty ...

How do I get started with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

19 December 2017 (M) - Little background: I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. Total geek, overweight, and not handsome/physically attractive in anyway. Basically no redeeming qualities for the opposite sex. I've long thought about just seein...

Do you think he cares that I don't call him so often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2529 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, I like this guy over 5 years now we talk on the phone I call him he never calls me i think the headache don't call me because I have to use my next door phone and he knows her they use to work to getther I use to call once ever week ...

Would a guy settle for one woman if he can't have another?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - A guy complained that girl A does not like him. Girl A treats him indifferently. At the same time the guy was, and has becoming closer to girl B; who has always been in love with him. This guy and girl B having a relationship now. It seems like the...

Is there a chance my crush likes me back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - There is a guy nice guy at my church and I liked him the monent I saw him but he had a girlfriend and I back off which was a year ago and forgot about him. Me and him are in the same weekly church group but never really talked much Recently I had...

I'm having some trouble with my crushes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

9 December 2017 (F) - I'm having a lot of trouble with my crushes. Do you have any advice on what I should do? How should I deal with this? I'm dealing with a lot right now and I want to resolve all my crush problems first. Basically, around a year ago I started li...

I'm unhappily married but in love with a man who's engaged but hesitant to leave his fiance

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

7 December 2017 (F) - Please could I ask for some advice on my situation... I have been married for 3 years but for the last year the marriage has been very difficult and we both feel that we have grown too far apart to fix things, although haven’t yet said we will div...

I’m worried commitment means forfeiting sexual fulfillment, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

7 December 2017 (M) - I’m in my mid-twenties and have been in a loving relationship six years, but I’m frustrated by my attraction to others. Whilst my partner has a colourful sexual history, I’ve only ever been with them and I feel by staying, I’m losing opportunities ...

What do I do about this weird attraction for my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2248 days ago

7 December 2017 (F) - Lately, I've been feeling a weird attraction towards my teacher, I know it sounds inappropriate, but I really like him! Some days, I can't stop thinking about him, but other days, I just feel uncomfortable around him, I know that most of you reading ...

What is this feeling I have for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

5 December 2017 (M) - i have a childhood friend who is four years older than I am and for the most part I've seen him as a big brother because my friend has always been by my side. But there is another part of me that gets jealous when I see my friend flirt with peo...

I'm into him and I would like to make a move! But we live together at uni, whatbif it went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - Simply put, me and one of my uni flatmates are into each other. He's very shy, I know he has never even kissed anybody before, and I would like to make a move so badly. We flirt, we make excuses to spend time with each other, and he does things for ...

Do I stay with boyfriend or leave and hope something will happen with this other man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

3 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone Looking for some advice. Im 32 years old and when I was 18 I met a lad (lets call him A) through a group of friends. I had just recently entered a relationship and A also had a girlfriend who he had been with a few years. There was...

Should I try and talk to him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

2 December 2017 (F) - Hey, I'm new to this community and I just want to thank everyone who reads this! So, for the last 2years I've been simply experiencing phisical relationships with other people and 6 months ago I meet someone with whom I really could picture a ...