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writes:there is this guy i know and i don't know if i'm interested in him, he's 2 years older than me and he seems to have a lot of friends ( girls included). sometimes i have feelings when i see him hanging out with other girls but sometimes i feel nothing for him. sometimes i feel like he's flirting with me but we might just be friends in his eyes. recently i've been avoiding him when he asks to meet because i can't seem to sort my feelings out... what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2017): I know what you mean. I guess you'd just like to get his attention; but you need to talk to him "one-on-one" without distractions; to really figure-out what it is about hiim that draws you to him. Once you satisfy your curiosity, he'll probably wear-off.
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reader, Roboaxe  +, writes (27 December 2017):
 Sure, talk to him more and see how you feel about it. You can't gauge all of this just by occasionally flirting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2017): When my feelings called and told me I found a match I was shocked! I didn't know that's how feelings worked. Well, turns out they don't. You can't gauge feelings when they haven't developed yet, and your attraction is a surface and shallow feeling. Chat him up a bit when you can and see if you like spending time with him and go from there.
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