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writes:Hi I'm having a problem with getting any sort of connection with a girl I have become friends with. We met at college and have been in group tasks etc and we got on really well I have real feelings towards her but have tried to talk to her via social media and have got nothing from her. If I tell her how I feel towards her I feel that it may ruin the whole thing and she won't speak 2 me again as she may think I'm needy and not her type. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tom C +, writes (23 December 2017):
Tom C is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks for the advice I think this is probably the best way to go about my problem tbh so thank u.
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reader, holeymoley  +, writes (22 December 2017):
 Keep it cool. A simple and casual invite to coffee , if she accepts see where it goes. Personally I think the "asking out for coffee ritual" is the baseline for getting some sort of indication of how things are. What ever your do mate, I wouldn't be blurting out how you feel just yet- Just see how the coffee date goes if thats what ends up happening.- Good Luck
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reader, Denizen +, writes (22 December 2017):
 You could try asking her to join you for a pizza at the best pizza house near you. If she says no, then she may not be that interested.
Social media isn't the place to start broadcasting your feelings to be honest. The relative anonymity of the internet can be emboldening, but actually it's like undressing in public. Just find a moment when she isn't with friends and say: 'I was wondering if you would like to join me for a pizza one night?'
It's as simple as that. If she declines, then no harm done. It was only a pizza.
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