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Archived questions from: August, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How do I move on and trust him? Or is he not trust worthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - I have a big trust issue regarding my boyfriend and his ex. When my boyfriend and I first dated, he broke up with his ex to be with me, but he never told her about me because she has a really bad temper and she was still trying to get back with him. ...

Why does my married lover not admit how he feels about me? And keeps changing his words?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - Can anyone here help me to make sense of my married lover's words? Why did he tell me he loves me? Then the next time he says he likes me. Then he says he likes me a lot. Then the next time he says he adores me. And the next time after that, it's...

Why would a man still hang onto his girlfriend even if he is cheating with other women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

30 August 2017 (F) - If a guy is cheating on his girlfriend, why would he not leave her? He obviously is not the right man for her. So, why not just leave her, let her find a better man for her, instead of hang onto her knowing he is hurting her? Clearly a rel...

How can my boyfriend have all these text messages to other women? I feel like I'm on another planet

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - Im just so upset and not sure what to do. My partner and I have been together now for 6 years, it has been a struggle as after the first 8 months of us being together he slept with someone else. I managed to forgive him for this and after time and ...

Is my wife sleeping elsewhere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

29 August 2017 (M) - I am a married man who was in a monogamous relationship with my wife for seven years. I was a virgin before marriage. My wife was the first and only sexual partner. I went to a massage parlour in an inebriated condition while on a business trip to a ...

I found out my wife was cheating on me. I feel turned on and am confused about my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

27 August 2017 (M) - I saw my wife cheating on me with a guy but I found it a turn-on. We’ve been married for ten years and have two daughters. We’re both 35 and have jobs. Two days ago I got home early from work because I had a doubt that my wife was cheating ...

I'm craving attention and wishing for a double life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - Before you read this. Please try not to pass judgement. I know it may be difficult for some of you and you may not understand the way I am feeling. To be honest I would pass judgement on people like me before I actually felt this way. I have be...

Does my situation have a future or should I give up on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts, I hope you all are doing well. It has been a while since I have asked for your wise advice, but here I am again... I broke up with my boyfriend for the second time. The first time we dated for about one year and he broke up w...

Is it wrong to snitch to his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - On Friday night I met up with my ex BF from last year. He has a new GF but we met up and hooked up. I know it was wrong but he persued me. Now he has asked me to keep quiet about it and gone back to his life as though nothing has happened. He sped ...

Boyfriend's friend comes over when I'm not there, now they slept in the same bed. What is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

23 August 2017 (F) - when I first met my bf he had this girl that was his friend but they also hooked up a lot. And she wanted to have a relationship with him. But he didn't want to be in a relationship. She found a bf. And after a few months me and my bf started ...

How can I fix this? I'm in a rocky LDR and I am catfishing another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'll try and keep this short. I'm a 30 year old female in a longterm and longdistance same sex relationship. Since we moved apart about 8 months ago, things have become boring. When wectalk it's generally quite negative a...

My close friend is dating my boss, who is cheating on her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - I've got a very complicated situation that I'm not sure what to do about. One of my close friends is dating my boss. She used to be pretty unstable before they got together three years ago but recently she's been really happy. I've found out that...

I'm ready to leave, but how do I take my dignity with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - Ive been seeing a 34 year old guy for two full months now. He treats me well, takes me out to nice places well until i saw him texting other girls on social me. I caught him once flirting with girls the one time we went shopping together. I told him ...

I've been snooping and finding messages my boyfriend has sent to people on Craigslist

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

20 August 2017 (F) - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years dating for 3. This summer we moved to a new town for his work. He really hated the job but had to do it to move up. One week, our sex life was amazing, he was tired but came h...

If my husband loves me like he says he does then why can't I shake the feelings that he's been unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

19 August 2017 (F) - Hi everybody, I have never done this before so here goes.. I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have been together for 15 years. I ma 38 and he is 53. I love him so much and there's nothing I wouldn't do for him. I'm in scho...

My very best friend is cheating on her partner! Do I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

19 August 2017 (F) - Please help. She is my very bestfriend for 17 Years. WE See really good with each other. I care for her. I know her very much and everything what she do is open to me. Thats how she trust me. My Problem is, i visited Her 2 months ago. Thats ...

His ex randomly pops up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

17 August 2017 (F) - My .... ex? current bf?... I don't know what we are... we dated for a year,he cheated several times, I broke up with him and 6 months later we are seeing each other and acting like a couple. To him and his friends and immediate family, he introduces ...

Married co-worker I'm having an affair with is now ignoring me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

10 August 2017 (F) - Im a married woman who has been having a fling if you call it that with a married co-worker. Now that weve slept together hes been ignoring my texts yet still speaks to me in work like nothing has happened.( a week ago) Im so confused by this. Im ...

What to do with my cheating friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

10 August 2017 (F) - One of my girlfriends whom I have been friend for a year has had the tendency to sleep with men that are taken or take men from our circle - example one of our other gfs liked this guy at the bar and started talking to him- apparently he also liked ...

I blurted out I LOVE YOU to my married boyfriend. Why does he still want to be with me?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

8 August 2017 (F) - I told my married boyfriend of 3.5 years that I LOVE HIM yesterday. It just came out. I did not mean to say it but I did. He was asking me why do I stay with a guy like him? He called himself average, boring, not so attractive yet said I am ...

I ended the affair but he keeps contacting me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

8 August 2017 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for over 5 years....he said he's in a sexless marriage and his wife doesn't show him any affection....he can't leave her yet as he feels he would be abandoning his kids even though they are in their late ...

Should I tell his girlfriend he's been having an online affair with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

7 August 2017 (F) - So I met a guy online and instantly fell for him. We live cross country so the chances of us meeting were pretty slim I guess. Still, he told me how much he liked me and wished he lived closer so I could be his girlfriend. At one point, he even said ...

Cheating past discovered via old emails! Should I confront him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

5 August 2017 (F) - ve been with my bf for almost 10 years now. I've never had any issues, and never even had a slight suspicion that he would do anything he's not supposed to, and never had trust issues with him (maybe I'm too naive?) one thing always peeved me off ...

My wife is a masseuse but I'm not sure of her "exchange network". Should I hack into her account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

5 August 2017 (M) - After i had some business problems my wife decided to qualify as a masseuse and try and bring in an income. That was 4 years ago.After a year of working in a Spa she decided to work from home. She said a lot of her regulars had said they would co...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about sex or have sex. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

2 August 2017 (F) - My bf is 26, I'm 32. He is very sexual, likes porn, been caught cheating several times. We've broken up and just recently got back together. I've noticed that he seems very uncomfortable watching porn with me, talking about sex, and does not like to ...